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Lending money to a friend- drawing up a contract

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  • coldhandoff
    coldhandoff Posts: 128 Forumite
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    I meant you can't write them as in future dating it will have no effect, it will still go through fine.
    I work for Natwest.
  • malkyh
    malkyh Posts: 1,085 Forumite
    I meant you can't write them as in future dating it will have no effect, it will still go through fine.

    Really? Is that Natwest only? My company bank high volumes of investor cheques and cheques postdated have always been rejected. Suppose it all depends on the vigilance of the person at the clearing centre though.

    Barclays certainly reject postdated cheques.
  • coldhandoff
    coldhandoff Posts: 128 Forumite
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    malkyh wrote: »
    Is that Natwest only?
    Might be then.
    I work for Natwest.
  • jonesMUFCforever
    jonesMUFCforever Posts: 28,898 Forumite
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    Shall I tell you what I think??

    OK here goes - something will go wrong with the car and the friend will stop paying.
    OP will then come back on here asking how to get his money - the answer will be he can't.

    Forget contracts or post dated cheques - if he has not got the cash to pay for the car sell to someone who does.
  • k12479
    k12479 Posts: 801 Forumite
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    If, as you say, you want to help your friend out and don't want to keep it yourself for 12 months then perhaps sell it to him outright now for what he can afford.
  • tell_it_how_it_is
    tell_it_how_it_is Posts: 555 Forumite
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    edited 30 May 2012 at 12:04AM
    I'd never say don't do it outright, because sometimes you know enough about a person's character to know whether repaying is likely to be an issue i.e. I lent my dad £8k interest free absolutely certain I'd get it all back, and I did, with him paying extra above the agreed whenever he could. But similarly there are a couple of mates I'd never envisage lending anything more than £40-£50 to.

    So I think you need to also weigh up your mate (does he hold down a steady job? is he regularly skint?) while determining if you're happy to go ahead. If so, the only slight worry would be that it is a car, and - as mentioned above - if something goes wrong with the car before he's paid up, that might alter his attitude towards carrying on paying.
    “In any moment of decision the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing at all.” - Roosevelt
  • jason1231972
    jason1231972 Posts: 350 Forumite
    k12479 wrote: »
    If, as you say, you want to help your friend out and don't want to keep it yourself for 12 months then perhaps sell it to him outright now for what he can afford.

    Good idea this. If he can't afford it at a knockdown price, walk away.

    I'm wondering if there's any way the OP can keep the logbook/remain the registered keeper for the duration of this agreement? Not sure how that affects insurance, etc., but someone's bound to know.
  • jason1231972
    jason1231972 Posts: 350 Forumite
    But similarly there are a couple of mates I'd never envisage lending anything more than £40-£50 to.

    I lent a small sum to a mate once, and he later tapped me up for more money to buy a few lottery scratchcards in the hope that he'd win the money to repay the original loan :rotfl:

    Amused, I lent him more. He didn't win a penny, but I did eventually get all my money back!
  • C_Mababejive
    C_Mababejive Posts: 11,668 Forumite
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    I always say,the best place to get loans is from a bank.
    Feudal Britain needs land reform. 70% of the land is "owned" by 1 % of the population and at least 50% is unregistered (inherited by landed gentry). Thats why your slave box costs so much..
  • I lent a small sum to a mate once, and he later tapped me up for more money to buy a few lottery scratchcards in the hope that he'd win the money to repay the original loan :rotfl:

    Amused, I lent him more. He didn't win a penny, but I did eventually get all my money back!

    Haha, like it, the cheek of it! Hope you had your money saving head on to insist on 50% of any winnings above what he owed you, if it had come to pass. :)
    “In any moment of decision the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing at all.” - Roosevelt
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