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Black Tie Do

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I have a black tie do in a couple of weeks and I know black tie means tuxedo bow tie and penguin suit.

But I am a bit skint at the moment so I do not really want to go out and hire a tux for £60. Do you think I can get away with a normal black suit and a black tie? Especially when you wear the suit for about half an hour. you get very drunk and take most of the gear off anyway !!!! What a rip off !!!

But I dont want to end up looking like a kn*b !!!

Opinions please?

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  • tracy1_2
    tracy1_2 Posts: 283 Forumite
    yes absolutely - as long as its a black suit with no pinstripes etc and make sure you have a black bow tie then there will be no probs. Enjoy!
    if you go to charity shops you can often get a cummerband and bow tie to match - you'll really look the part then.
  • scuzz
    scuzz Posts: 1,995 Forumite
    I would double check with whoever's do it is. I'm going to a black tie do, but they've stated tux or black suit and tie for the men

    Would've thought you'd be ok in a black suit though
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  • Bambywamby
    Bambywamby Posts: 1,608 Forumite
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    As long as you look smart, well groomed and walk in with a big smile on your face oozin confidence...nobody will think you look out of place.

    Have a great night x
  • Lillibet_2
    Lillibet_2 Posts: 3,364 Forumite
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    As long as it is a pure black suit & you have a proper dinner shirt (wing coller woudl eb best) & a nice black bow tie then it should be fine.

    Enjoy your night;)
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  • aj9648
    aj9648 Posts: 1,386 Forumite
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    I have seen people wearing a normal black tie at some of these do's - some celebs do it as well

    I was going to wear one of some sparkly/sequin blacks ties - is that a bit over the top?
  • Wear one of those new fashionable black kilts with the full Prince Charlie waistcoat and jacket, wing collar shirt and bow tie - you'll really give them something to talk about!!!!
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  • aj9648
    aj9648 Posts: 1,386 Forumite
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    On the invite it says black tie/evening wear. Guess I can get away with a suit?
  • OK_Sauce
    OK_Sauce Posts: 988 Forumite
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    Go to your local charity shops!! I picked up the whole monty for £25 inc. jacket, trousers, shirt and dicky-bow. Cheaper than hiring, and if you ever need it again it's always there.
    "...IT'S FRUITY!"
  • melancholly
    melancholly Posts: 7,457 Forumite
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    or try somewhere like asda or primark - they have dress suits that are cheaper than hiring (although obviously if you can avoid needing one altogether, go with that!)
    :happyhear
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