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Totally fed up !!!!!!!!!!!

I have no money and its my fault for managing it so badly but today my card was declined in the corner shop and I am so angry with myself. I thought I had a few pounds left but turns out something I bought a few days back hadnt cleared yet when I calculated my balance and by the time I got to the shop it had been taken and left me standing there with no money.

I didnt even feel that embarassed as I am used to having no money and putting a front on but today I have just had enough of being poor !

So I guess its just a rant really but want to feel I am not the only one in this situation !

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  • Barbeduk
    Barbeduk Posts: 869 Forumite
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    At least you know that on here you are not the only one, perhaps now's the time to turn it around? I'm sure someone will be along with the link for the SOA if you fancy filling one out, it's a real eye opener.

    Good luck!
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  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Start your money saving here.

    Does your corner shop charge you for using the card, ours does, £1.50 so stop doing that for a start.

    Post up an SOA and we will help you further.
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • camuk81
    camuk81 Posts: 1,559 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Cotton, At least you knew the money was coming back instead of praying it would go through! Unfortunately they are great at taking money but take ages to give it back
  • MFWannabe
    MFWannabe Posts: 2,458 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    I'm a little confused as on an earlier thread today you were asking questions about overpaying your mortgage by £600 per month or saving this amount each month?
    It's no good doing this if you are leaving yourself no money for essentials
    MFW 2025 #50: £1139.75/£6000

    12/06/25: Mortgage: £65,000.00
    07/03/25: Mortgage: £67,000.00
    18/01/25: Mortgage: £68,500.14
    27/12/24: Mortgage: £69,278.38 

    27/12/24: Debt: £0 🥳😁
    27/12/24: Savings: £12,000

    07/03/25: Savings: £16,500

  • cottonhead
    cottonhead Posts: 696 Forumite
    edited 22 May 2012 at 5:30PM
    Thanks all. Yes I am in debt at the moment with payday loans, overdraft etc.
    In the future once those are gone I will be in the fortunate position to overpay the mortgage and I guess it makes me feel hope , exploring the issues of what is possible in future. Right now though it feels rubbish and that those plans might not come true.!
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