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Payday Loan misery

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  • laura243
    laura243 Posts: 45 Forumite
    No, no, I have never said I am not going to pay it back I asked for best advice as I couldn't afford to pay it back THIS MONTH.I have never said I haven't been greedy, I said I have been an idiot etc. what do you lot want from me?A massive grovelling apology to you who think you are better than me?Would that give you all your thrills?Knowing you have been able to manage your finances and never been in a desperate situation?

    As for this: You are going to be back soon and most of the regulars know why...and you deserve whats coming..

    If all the "regulars" think they have a right to judge others and are as sarcastic as half you lot that have commented then I would rather not be back for your "advice" you're a bunch of condesending "tw*ts!!*

    Thanks for your advice simon,I don't live with my parents, and I need £1100 to live on a month, my wage just about covers it, time off work with stress led to a smaller pay packet sending me to these companies, I may be able to lend from a family member, I plan on asking them this week.Thanks you again, I'll be happy when I have done as well as you and dug myself out of this :) I don't plan on ever going back.May even restart my debt free diary....prove these lot wrong.
  • wiseshark
    wiseshark Posts: 288 Forumite
    edited 1 May 2012 at 3:55AM
    Some of the comments on here over the last two days regarding Laura's desperate situation have been absolutely disgraceful and totally sickening.

    .:mad:
    You may question anything I say. Just be polite, otherwise you go straight on to my Ignore List, which funds a good old fashioned knees-up every Xmas. Cheers;)
  • Mara69
    Mara69 Posts: 1,409 Forumite
    laura243 wrote: »
    I may be able to lend from a family member, I plan on asking them this week.

    Unless you've gone into the money lending business, you'll be borrowing and they'll be lending :D
  • laura243
    laura243 Posts: 45 Forumite
    Wiseshark, Thank you very much, thought for a second there I was going stupid and this was how all human beings are?Obviously I didn't realise what a terrible thing I have done, anyone would think I'd commited a murder.

    Mara, thanks for that, obviously I'm stupid as well as "a tw*t, greedy and can't handle the truth."
  • laura243
    laura243 Posts: 45 Forumite
    Actually, Bugsy, you're awful quite tonight, I thought you lay in wait for people to pick on?I see your original comment has disapeared?Is this because of how unhelpful/upsetting it was?Seems admin have thought such.
  • Emmzi
    Emmzi Posts: 8,658 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    lara, best to learn how the ignore list works early doors. The bigger my list the less stressful the internet is...
    Debt free 4th April 2007.
    New house. Bigger mortgage. MFWB after I have my buffer cash in place.
  • laura243
    laura243 Posts: 45 Forumite
    Good thinking Emmzi!! :D
  • DevCoder
    DevCoder Posts: 3,362 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    yet the people offering advice (and good advice) you don't want to hear?

    Seriously, don't go down that road. It's not a good one.
  • laura243
    laura243 Posts: 45 Forumite
    Offering advice whilst kicking me when I'm down, if I believed it was given in good faith I would be more than happy to entertain their ideas but I don't like people making me out to be stupid, I know the mistakes I have made and I will not lie down whilst they think it ok to trample on me. I will take advice from the other lovely people on here who have given me encouragement and support.
  • BugsyBrowne
    BugsyBrowne Posts: 5,697 Forumite
    laura243 wrote: »
    Actually, Bugsy, you're awful quite tonight, I thought you lay in wait for people to pick on?I see your original comment has disapeared?Is this because of how unhelpful/upsetting it was?Seems admin have thought such.

    No I wasn't sitting laying in wait Laura I was on online banking paying some bills.
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