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Please can someone help?

I have just got back into work after about two months. The wage is £5.35- minimum wage. I have no savings whatsoever, my loan is 4 months in arrears and as my wage is monthly, I am a bit worried as to how I am going to get through the month. Also, I smoke, which is damaging my very small wallet further. I have tried to quit countless times, to no avail. Feeling quite down tonight and could do with some advice on how to get through the month financially... any advice much appreciated.
Total in ISAs = £8,863.50
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  • GirlRacer_2
    GirlRacer_2 Posts: 3,026 Forumite
    Congratulations of posting. The first month of a new job is always the hardest. Payday seems a long way off. I'm sure someone will be along shortly to give you some useful advice. Is there anything you could sell?

    With regards to your smoking - it's doing more damage to your body than your wallet. Get down to your GP and see if they can give you something to help you quit.
  • LookingAhead
    LookingAhead Posts: 4,633 Forumite
    Hi there. I'm really sorry you are feeling down. But you're in good company. :)

    There will be other advice to follow, stuff about contacting your creditors (others know the rules much more than I do on that score) after all you can't give them what you haven't got.

    The lines of communication must remain open to your creditors, you must talk to people who can help you with this i.e. CAB or CCCS I assume.

    But number one....you really have no choice but to stop smoking right now.

    If you buy cigarettes, that is £4 - £5 you could spend on food. It's not really going to make much of a dent in your debts I'm sure but it will buy you FOOD and help to heat your home...you will also feel as if you have clawed back some control in your life. And every penny counts in situations like this.

    Those things are just another form of controlling you.

    Can you make it a point to borrow Alan Carr's quitting smoking book from the library? It won't then cost you a penny and it could save your wallet...and your health.
    Bank Balance: In the black for the moment.
    Sainsburys Loan: Cleared July 2010
    Credit cards: AMEX Airmiles Card: direct debit set to clear balance monthly
  • thanks for the advice, i have read allen carrs book on how to quit smoking but only lasted four days, which is a bit pathetic, i keep tring every so often, nicotine is just highly addictive, wish i had never started smoking in the first place
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  • joughtib
    joughtib Posts: 193 Forumite
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    How many cigarettes do you smoke a day?
  • thanks for the advice, i have read allen carrs book on how to quit smoking but only lasted four days, which is a bit pathetic, i keep tring every so often, nicotine is just highly addictive, wish i had never started smoking in the first place

    never look back only forwards... lots of us can put 'what ifs' in lots of situations... dont do it it will just make you more depressed. With regards to smoking get yourself down the doctors you can now get free help and this includes patches on prescription which is nearly 1/2 the price they retail at. It looks like you will never be able to do it but you can with some support :)
  • CLAPTON
    CLAPTON Posts: 41,865 Forumite
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    its impossible to give any sensible advice without knowing your income, spending and debt details..post an SOA and lets see the full details.
  • i smoke 20 a day, somethimes more
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  • how do you do an soa? sorry im fairly new to this
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  • CLAPTON
    CLAPTON Posts: 41,865 Forumite
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    An SOA Statement of Affairs

    a. list of income and a total
    b. a detailed list of spending (include mortgage and secured debt but exclude unsecured debt)
    c. a total of spending as above
    d. now you can see how much you have to pay debt monthly by forming income minus spending
    e. a list of unsecured debts
    i.e. debt amount, minimum monthly debt repayment, APR for CCs
    and amount outstanding, monthly payment and number left to pay for loans
    f. a total of unsecured debt and of monthly unsecured debt repayment
    also say if you rent or buying , if so how much is the house worth and how much the mortgage, also your general situation: partner, children, working etc.


    or read
    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=107280
  • how do you attach your soa to each message you post? in colour?
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