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Property Ladder or Debt Free?

Meffontour
Posts: 3 Newbie
Hi, I could do with some real help!
I currently have a 95% mortgage for a house I bought with my ex nearly 5 years ago. The mortgage is up for renewal in 6 months and I would like to take his name off (as was agreed between us), but to do so I would need to remortgage, and I'm not sure that I'll be given one as was based on 2 incomes. My new partner has an extremely poor credit file and I don't know whether they would touch him with a barge pole!!!!
I also have quite a large amount of debt (about £9k!). If I sold my house it would pay for selling fees and all debt (£15k profit from house sale), but obviously I would then need to rent instead!
Is it better for me to keep my house, knowing that it will never be worth more than it is now OR shall I sell it now, get debt free and then save again. I am in my mid-30s and would like to settle down with kids soon, but see this as an impossible task with the money situation the way it is! Any advice would be grateful. Thanks
I currently have a 95% mortgage for a house I bought with my ex nearly 5 years ago. The mortgage is up for renewal in 6 months and I would like to take his name off (as was agreed between us), but to do so I would need to remortgage, and I'm not sure that I'll be given one as was based on 2 incomes. My new partner has an extremely poor credit file and I don't know whether they would touch him with a barge pole!!!!
I also have quite a large amount of debt (about £9k!). If I sold my house it would pay for selling fees and all debt (£15k profit from house sale), but obviously I would then need to rent instead!
Is it better for me to keep my house, knowing that it will never be worth more than it is now OR shall I sell it now, get debt free and then save again. I am in my mid-30s and would like to settle down with kids soon, but see this as an impossible task with the money situation the way it is! Any advice would be grateful. Thanks
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Meffontour wrote: »Is it better for me to keep my house, knowing that it will never be worth more than it is now OR shall I sell it now, get debt free and then save again. I am in my mid-30s and would like to settle down with kids soon, but see this as an impossible task with the money situation the way it is! Any advice would be grateful. Thanks
If you have to remove the ex's name from the mortgage and you are unlikely to get a mortgage in your own name, the question answers itself.
If I were your ex I would be pushing for my name to be removed so unless you can get a mortgage on your own, I think you will be selling up.
NivYNWA
Target: Mortgage free by 58.0 -
Tricky - your rent might end up costing you more a month than your mortgage.£2013 in 2013 £866.71/£2013
DF by Xmas 2013 #027£841.28/£6000 (14.02%) 12/2
DFD February 2015 £2,303.63/£19,520.26 (11.80%)0 -
I agree it is vital that ex-partner's name is removed from mortgage for both of your sakes.
My feeling is that it would be better to clear the debts - at present, it is unlikely you would get a mortgage based on your change in circumstances and even if you did, you would pay through the nose for the rates (I know this because my deal has recently ended and the rates for over 75% LTV were pretty poor)
If you paid off the debts, you would be in a better financial position overall and free from any ties to your ex. You would be able to start afresh and would have approx £6k to put towards a deposit on a new home. If you could rent as cheaply as possible or even houseshare, you could look at saving towards your deposit. JUST DON'T BUILD UP ANY MORE DEBTS - ditch the CCs and loans for good!
Posting your SOA might help, then people could advise on where you could cut back to help you save more money towards your deposit.
Good luckA journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Started 15/03/2011.
CC1 - [STRIKE]6380[/STRIKE] 5800 CC2 - [STRIKE]2673[/STRIKE] 2238 Loan - [STRIKE]12172[/STRIKE] 10731 Total - [STRIKE]21225[/STRIKE] 18769 11.5% (£2456) paid :T0 -
Will you sell your house OK - how quickly are things moving? My point is - will you get what you want for it?
If so - personally I'd sell up and rent. Again - I'd check local availablity and prices first. How do your monthly income and outgoings look with the rental prices ( and no debt repayments).
I'd be wanting your ex off the mortgage ASAP and its up for renewal anyway - sounds like you may not have a choice if you can't afford a mortgage anyway.May 2018 - £159k + £3.5K CC - let the countdown begin!
March 2019 - CC gone and bye bye M2 on 31st! £140k to go.:j0 -
Thanks everyone for the advice. My mortgage at the mo is just over £1,000 a month (bought at the peak 5 years ago at 5.89%) and renting will be around £850 per month in my area.
Thinking selling might just have to be the way forward!0 -
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Posting your SOA might help, then people could advise on where you could cut back to help you save more money towards your deposit.[/QUOTE]
Can someone tell me what SOA stands for please? Thanks0 -
Meffontour wrote: »Can someone tell me what SOA stands for please? ThanksDo you not know that a man is not dead while his name is still spoken?
― Sir Terry Pratchett, 1948-20150
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