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What would you do ??

Hi,

Im just wondering wat some ppl would do in my situation.

I have been working for my company for over 10 years, and being bullied on and off fr the past 4 year by the same person.

he was demoted at one stage partly due to his beaviour.

I am currently of ork sick due to hie recent behaviour towards me, My manager is moving him to a different office. I mut admint our personalitites do clash.

I get on very well with the manager and respect him .

I am due to go in hospital mid april for a operation recovery time is 4 weeks.

I have just been offered another job closer to home.


I was not going to hand my notice in till i had my op just incase anything went wrong but should i informally tell my manger know about this.

So in 3 weeks i have 4 weeks off then leave.

Any advice would be gratefully received ?
:ASexy_fufu:A

Comments

  • Sambucus_Nigra
    Sambucus_Nigra Posts: 8,669 Forumite
    Hand your notice in after the op.
    If you haven't got it - please don't flaunt it. TIA.
  • marybelle01
    marybelle01 Posts: 2,101 Forumite
    There is no "informal "about telling a manager that you have another job. And it looks bad on you if you are hedging your bets for more sick leave if you need it. Make a decision and stick to it. If you like and respect your manager then its probably mutual,so dont mess that up right at the end. You never know when you might need them again.
  • ditzyat50
    ditzyat50 Posts: 241 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    My instinct is screaming noooooooooooo. If in doubt say nowt. Keep it to yourself for now.
  • sexy_fufu
    sexy_fufu Posts: 758 Forumite
    I wondered what i had walked into here.

    i think i am going to leave it till after op.

    Thanks for your replies x
    :ASexy_fufu:A
  • Yorkie1
    Yorkie1 Posts: 12,269 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    sexy_fufu wrote: »
    I wondered what i had walked into here.

    i think i am going to leave it till after op.

    Thanks for your replies x

    It's absolutely nothing to do with your thread / question, so don't worry about that.

    Good luck with your op, hope the recovery goes well.
  • newbutold
    newbutold Posts: 753 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts
    sexy_fufu wrote: »
    I wondered what i had walked into here.

    i think i am going to leave it till after op.

    Thanks for your replies x

    I to would leave it until after the op. No matter how well you get on with your manager, he is still your manager & there is no informal way to tell him your leaving. He will be duty bound to inform HR & his boss whilst also doing what is best for the department he manages.

    Good luck with the op.
    If my posts have random wrong words, please blame the damn autocorrect not me :D
  • Edinburghlass_2
    Edinburghlass_2 Posts: 32,680 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    sexy_fufu wrote: »
    I wondered what i had walked into here.

    i think i am going to leave it till after op.

    Thanks for your replies x

    Sorry about your thread being derailed, I've reported the thread and the FT will tidy it up in the morning.
  • Evilm
    Evilm Posts: 1,950 Forumite
    OP - leave the notice until after the operation. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
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