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Is everyone entitled to special leave to care for a dependent?

Not sure if this is dependent upon the employer, or if it is a right?

Essentially, my DD is very unwell at the moment, and really not able to care for her year old daughter.

Two weeks ago, I had to take a day off to care for my 12 week old grandson who was staying with us, when his mother was taken to hospital. I had anticipated using a day's annual leave for this, but my employer allowed me to take it as special leave to care for a dependent in an emergency.

I wouldn't push my luck tomorrow and ask for another day off, but in any case, I can't help as I am on a two day training course that I really cannot miss.

Just wondering if my granddaughter's father is entitled to take a day or two off work to care for his daughter, as the baby's mother is really not able to care for her (they are separated, and obviously don't live together - he works shifts in a hotel).


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  • LittleVoice
    LittleVoice Posts: 8,974 Forumite
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    Here (http://www.personneltoday.com/articles/2008/01/21/43979/emergency-time-off-to-care-for-dependants.html ) is some information about emergency leave for care of dependants.
  • clairec79
    clairec79 Posts: 2,512 Forumite
    I am assuming that he is named on the birth certificate, if so yes he is but it may not be paid
  • Hootie19
    Hootie19 Posts: 1,251 Forumite
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    Thank you both.

    Yes, he has PR for her, but is saying that they don't have cover for him at work, but may be able to manage a couple of hours. sigh - not much good to my daughter. She really needs to rest and not have to be worrying about the little one at all.
  • heretolearn_2
    heretolearn_2 Posts: 3,565 Forumite
    Hard, but as an employer I would not count your grandchild as a dependent, so yours is being nice there.

    Yes, of course the child's father can apply but bear in mind that this dependents leave is for emergencies and is intended to be short-term - to arrange for care, rather than to provide it directly. It can also be unpaid.
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