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someone on here was asking for tpo bars for an 18th or a wedding buffet can someone tell me where they are ? As I have around 40 I can spare ?
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well he is a doc too so i CAN talk to him but he just doesn't care or want to know or seem to realise whn i am upset, he just sniggers and smirks at me, it's like my sis came round and could see i'd been crying straight away knew something was wrong, but he is in a world of his own. I am doing ALOT of extra hours and i am soooo tired, he doesn't get that i have to cover the debt i'm in and unfortunately for now housework suffering a bit. Unfortunatley i am not his dream stay at home housewife....no dinners on the table and no pretty outfits with false eyelashes and false nails...you get the picture. I am a workaholic and when we don't get on (because he is being lazy and i am working my !!!!! off ) i throw myself into my work even more .....and ignore him even more......and so the cycle goes on.
My sis says i should just jack it all in and sell my debt off and leave work and live life as a lady of leisure off his salary then he might get off HIS butt and do some extra shifts at wkds and evenings at the out of hours
i know only too well exactly how hard doctors can work, and with the extra hour and on call's too, its a wonder that anyone can hold a relationship down sometimes.
Working yourself to the bone to your detriment isnt going to help. If you did what your sister suggests, he would probably still get at you for whatever reason.
Only you know what your happy medium can be. But you need to take some time for yourself and be YOU, not Dr Celebrate all the time. Feel free to PM me if you ever feel like it xI’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Health & Beauty, Greenfingered Moneysaving and How Much Have You Saved boards. If you need any help on these boards, please do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com
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hi all
had an awful day and finding it hard to hold back the tears
problem at work ongoing, i can't even talk about it, confidentiality and all that, suffice to say i have been sobbing in between patients today:(:(:(:(
still stalemate with the OH , I know it's my fault he doesn't have a clue the problems i have at work and in my life right now, only just got home and had to make dinners for the rest of the week as am away for wkd, work related, just would be nice to have a husband as a companion someone i could share my troubles and just stuff with ?.......no maybe not:(:A
sorry for moaning, you guys have real problems stuff out of your control, i feel responsible for everything i have going on in my life:(
i missed out on the Hot chocolate glitch too, it sounds so pathetic that my internet crashed last night just as you guys posted and i am too stubborn and proud to ask OH to fix my computer, just had to ask "via the kids" and all he bl**dy did was switch the internet on and off the plug and it fixed it:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad: i know i'm carp with computers but i could have done that:A:A:A
lovely to see you guys getting your eggs, i don't celebrate easter anyway and having dug out my linen trousers and finding out they are all too small for me:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: I better lay off that chocolate:o:o:o:o:o until the next glitch;)
Big hugs Hun. Do you have a hotel chocolate near you? If you do I might have a spare voucher that is for a box of chocs rather than and Easter egg.Avatar courtesey of HC :beer:0 -
well he is a doc too so i CAN talk to him but he just doesn't care or want to know or seem to realise whn i am upset, he just sniggers and smirks at me, it's like my sis came round and could see i'd been crying straight away knew something was wrong, but he is in a world of his own. I am doing ALOT of extra hours and i am soooo tired, he doesn't get that i have to cover the debt i'm in and unfortunately for now housework suffering a bit. Unfortunatley i am not his dream stay at home housewife....no dinners on the table and no pretty outfits with false eyelashes and false nails...you get the picture. I am a workaholic and when we don't get on (because he is being lazy and i am working my !!!!! off ) i throw myself into my work even more .....and ignore him even more......and so the cycle goes on.
My sis says i should just jack it all in and sell my debt off and leave work and live life as a lady of leisure off his salary then he might get off HIS butt and do some extra shifts at wkds and evenings at the out of hours
You've gotta have a career too you know. My god I'd hate to be stuck with a wall flower for life. Just my opinion. Keep doing what you are doing Celebrate and stuff the rest :T:TAKA; Mad, MM, MM5, Madicles :cool: ©
Shin: Device for finding furniture in the dark©
Elite 11+ fundraising total for Make-a-Wish £682 :j:A0 -
ahhh i was crying before..... you lot with your flippin kindness are no help at all.... i'm blubbering all over the place now
thankyou so much cosmic dust and lookinforabargain and dopey-sleepy-grumpy
it doesn't cease to amaze me how people you don't even know can be kinder to you than your nearest and dearest
i am turning down the chocolate offers sorry if that has caused confusion with the offers but i don't want people thinking i posted for the wrong reasons:Ai just needed to scream in amanner of speaking:mad::mad::mad::mad: i seriously wouldn't eat the chocolate anyway would probably give to my sis or work , thanks anywayxxxGRATITUDE WHEN GIVEN, PATIENCE WHEN DENIED
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it just keeps giving me a hotel room
doesnt like me lol
You can't make someone love you. All you can do is
stalk them & hope they panic & give in
God created men first, cause you always makes a rough draft before a masterpiece!0 -
thanks, i will be getting this tomorrow0 -
Celebrate empty your pm box
QPR you have pm
Jodie you have pm
Milo :eek: dunno what to do lol
BBL going to collect big kid and need petrol.I made a mistake once, believeing people on the internet were my virtual friends. It won't be a mistake that I make again!0 -
ahhh i was crying before..... you lot with your flippin kindness are no help at all.... i'm blubbering all over the place now
thankyou so much cosmic dust and lookinforabargain
it doesn't cease to amaze me how people you don't even know can be kinder to you than your nearest and dearest
i am turning down the chocolate offers sorry if that has caused confusion with the offers but i don't want people thinking i posted for the wrong reasons:Ai just needed to scream in amanner of speaking:mad::mad::mad::mad: i seriously wouldn't eat the chocolate anyway would probably give to my sis or work , thanks anywayxxxyou daft moo. I haven't had time to read posts yet!
I made a mistake once, believeing people on the internet were my virtual friends. It won't be a mistake that I make again!0 -
flipping HC
flippin AOL
booo hisss:mad:I say "THANKS" to posts that make me smile - Oh and really good glitches.:j
Good things come to those who wait:A Bad things come on express delivery:(0
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