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First steps to debt free life

Hello

Today I am making my first steps to a debt free life. I need your inspiration stories and money saving tips! I'm feeling very scared and ashamed that at 28 years old, I have just over £11k worth of debt. I dont earn very much and starting uni in 9 months. Emotionally its very hard and I think about it everyday. :mad:

Every challenge starts with one step....... all advice appreciated :j
Amount in Debt: £12,699.56

Barclays Mastercard:
£1650.4,
Barclays Visa: £3667.3, Barclays Mastercard, £1592.23, HSBC Overdraft: £920 (DEFAULT - WITH COLLECTION AGENCY) , Barclays OD £100, Natwest OD £300, Family, £1700, Capital One Luma £1167.81, Natwest credit card, £1601.82

Taking my first steps :T
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  • Welcome to the DFW board! My tip would be to get as involved in the forum as possible - find some challenges that you'd like to try, maybe post about your progress if that appeals to you and the people of this forum will really encourage you to bust that debt. All the best.
    Thank you competition posters!
  • Firstly, well done on posting, on having the courage to make the decision to seek advice. However, you need to add a little more information in order to get the best from the forum. Why not post your SOA (I do not seem to be able to add the link but you will find it on a recent thread on this board, shouldn't be difficult to find) and then people can advise you how to tackle your debt and what steps to take next.

    welcome:T
    LBM August 2011. DFD somewhere post [STRIKE]2025[/STRIKE]2022 :eek:
    Total debts October 2011 circa GBP 17,700 September 2018 GBP 0 DMP with Payplan
    What doesn't kill you makes you stronger:T:D:D:D
  • Swans1912
    Swans1912 Posts: 1,658 Forumite
    Just to second what Standingtall has said. Consider posting up a SOA. It can be very helpful to have a fresh pair of eyes check everything.
  • freebyfifty
    freebyfifty Posts: 3,189 Forumite
    Hi,

    Just to say that you won't regret coming on here. The people are fantastic and make, what is going to be for me, a long hard slog, something which has become quite enjoyable :dance:

    You'll get loads of really brilliant advice, support and motivation and, if you want it to, will change your life for the better :T
    Free by Fifty
    Debt of the Moment -
    August NSD Challenge 14/15
  • Lemon_Tree
    Lemon_Tree Posts: 10,202 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts
    freebyfifty is right this is one of the best steps that you have ever taken. you'll find a lot of inspiration here and on the diary threads, just jump in there's no need to be shy, you won't be able to say anything which at least one of us hasn't done, thought or said.
    as Standingtall has said a SOA is a good way to start, you don't have to post it on here but it's a good way of revealing some areas where you can start to make changes, another good thing is to start a spending diary, especially if your soa says you should have lots of money left at the end of the month and yet you never do.
  • Welcome to DFW! Good luck on your journey

    Dxxx
  • camuk81
    camuk81 Posts: 1,559 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Welcome piggy bank I'm glad you had what we call the light bulb moment. Onwards and upwards
  • yeah OP it would be helpfull to see your SOA
    then we could help you to cut back a bit
    credit card bill. £0.00
    overdraft £0.00
    Help from the state £0.00
  • Thanks sooo much everyone! Already feel very welcome. Im over day 1 (always the hardest!) and I managed to spend £5 today :) I feel like im at the start of such a long journey and its all been such a shock from earning such little money after having a good salary. Things have to change now as im back to uni for a full year! Ive got 9 months to sort myself out as much as possible before student life starts. Good luck to everyone!!!
    Amount in Debt: £12,699.56

    Barclays Mastercard:
    £1650.4,
    Barclays Visa: £3667.3, Barclays Mastercard, £1592.23, HSBC Overdraft: £920 (DEFAULT - WITH COLLECTION AGENCY) , Barclays OD £100, Natwest OD £300, Family, £1700, Capital One Luma £1167.81, Natwest credit card, £1601.82

    Taking my first steps :T
  • PS - raided the Piggybank today and found £10 in pennies! £10 off my OD :) One step closer
    Amount in Debt: £12,699.56

    Barclays Mastercard:
    £1650.4,
    Barclays Visa: £3667.3, Barclays Mastercard, £1592.23, HSBC Overdraft: £920 (DEFAULT - WITH COLLECTION AGENCY) , Barclays OD £100, Natwest OD £300, Family, £1700, Capital One Luma £1167.81, Natwest credit card, £1601.82

    Taking my first steps :T
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