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to Somethingcorperate What's the difference on the way I spent my money on anyone or anyting
I earned it legally and the last time I looked this was a free country
I could have spent it on medical treatment for a sick relative I could have used to help my children in Private education Icould have spent it on wine woman or song ,or all three, none of your business so butt out
As for leaving it late to do anything about my predicament,yes that stating the bleedin obvios,my only concearn is food on the table , a roof over our heads and clothes on our backs.(that harks bark too the 1930's depression.if you know what that is)If that's been foolish with my money over last11 years then your opinion is worth buggar all
So don't judge me with your narrow minded principles on my lifestyle
saying I am foolish ,simple moaner your nothing more than a negative !!!!!
What's your plan now?
Just wondered ...0 -
to Somethingcorperate What's the difference on the way I spent my money on anyone or anyting
I earned it legally and the last time I looked this was a free country
I could have spent it on medical treatment for a sick relative I could have used to help my children in Private education Icould have spent it on wine woman or song ,or all three, none of your business so butt out
As for leaving it late to do anything about my predicament,yes that stating the bleedin obvios,my only concearn is food on the table , a roof over our heads and clothes on our backs.(that harks bark too the 1930's depression.if you know what that is)If that's been foolish with my money over last11 years then your opinion is worth buggar all
So don't judge me with your narrow minded principles on my lifestyle
saying I am foolish ,simple moaner your nothing more than a negative !!!!!
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to Somethingcorperate What's the difference on the way I spent my money on anyone or anyting
I earned it legally and the last time I looked this was a free country
Except you didn't earn it - you borrowed it from your lender via mortgage equity withdrawal with no plan in place to pay it back.
That's exactly the sort of irresponsible borrowing that's got the country into it's present situation.0 -
It's a free country for me to ask the questions I have. Can you not see the irony of what you are saying?
You've financed your life for the last 11 years with borrowed money, now the chickens are coming home to roost. I agree with you that it doesn't matter on what you've spent it, the fact is you have spent it without consideration of how you will ever pay it back, which just reeks of mindless irresponsibility I would expect someone of your age to have left behind in their teens.
Good luck, you're going to need it.Thinking critically since 1996....0 -
Not interested in Poppy's narrowminded negative input0
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That's why I 'M HERE0 -
Wutang
the second word is off he!he!he!he!he"
at least I 'VE had a life0 -
OP, by your own admission you have screwed up your own finances, do you think it is right to drag your son in and ruin his as well?0
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Oinions for u
That's why I 'M HERE
There's no easy answers. All you can do is look forward and salvage whatever you can from the situation. Ultimately though this will require a change of attitude from within. As only you have the power to change matters. Treating matters with a degree of humility is a step forward. Having dealt with financial issues for more years than I care to remember. Aggression I've found is little more than a defence mechanism (that can be seen through). As in reality circumstances are done to personal choice and decision nothing more.0 -
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