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  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    goofythedog wrote: »
    thats good news for you

    have you spoken to anyone about the money side of things as i really couldnt manage on the money you do and have no electric or gas when i have kids

    Ive spoke to payplanabout the debts if thats what you mean? We manage :) Its rare I dont have electric, Well no actually it goes off until I walk to the shop to buy some more :rotfl: Its pretty pointless changing anything now all will be better come next month and even better the month after and so on ...

    I want to get back to work come summer when Cam turns 3 and gets *some* free hours at nursery 2 kids childcare is scary lol
  • goofythedog
    goofythedog Posts: 28 Forumite
    yes it is do you get help with nursery fees at the moment or are you having to pay that out yourself can i just ask do you get milk tokens for your little girls milk and fruit and veg for cam(is that his name)

    sorry tell me to but out if im being too nosy
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    goofythedog wrote: »
    yes it is do you get help with nursery fees at the moment or are you having to pay that out yourself can i just ask do you get milk tokens for your little girls milk and fruit and veg for cam(is that his name)

    sorry tell me to but out if im being too nosy

    They did have free placements from social services while I was on treatment, not now no Cam will have 15 hours free come March. Yes I get the healthy start vouchers :) x
  • goofythedog
    goofythedog Posts: 28 Forumite
    im not being rude but wouldnt it be better for you to stop the nursery or reduce the hours so you have a bit more income i know it means their at home more but if its a case of saving money and i know nurseries arent cheap
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    goofythedog wrote: »
    im not being rude but wouldnt it be better for you to stop the nursery or reduce the hours so you have a bit more income i know it means their at home more but if its a case of saving money and i know nurseries arent cheap

    There not at nursery now?
  • goofythedog
    goofythedog Posts: 28 Forumite
    also would their dad if your not with him (i probably read something told you i like to scan) be able to help with their fees
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    goofythedog wrote: »
    also would their dad if your not with him (i probably read something told you i like to scan) be able to help with their fees

    No he cant its a long story and not one Id like to o into but he has no parental responsabilty anymore and isnt allowed access until they are over 18 and its there choice. Like I said we are coping :) And its all on the up from now :)
  • goofythedog
    goofythedog Posts: 28 Forumite
    ahh i read it wrong lol thought they were still going
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,503 Ambassador
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    goofy~I dont mean to be rude but I really think you either need to read back the thread or just back off a wee bit.
    Too many questions!!
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  • Hovel_lady
    Hovel_lady Posts: 4,291 Forumite
    beanielou wrote: »
    goofy~I dont mean to be rude but I really think you either need to read back the thread or just back off a wee bit.
    Too many questions!!
    You bet me to it, I was about to say the same thing.
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