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Starting again, with a positve attitude this time ..

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  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    Bet that feels nice to work with :rotfl:

    Hope your feeling better today? x

    I'm not :( ended up crying at work which I didn't want to do as the stupid woman shouted at me again! And then later she shouted at one of the directors, shouted at my current manager who had a go at her, and the woman came to apologise later to me. I didn't accept her apology as it was a day late and she shouted at me again! but did thank her for making it!

    My poor Manager cried in the afternoon too. We have both had a very stressful week, one we didn't need! have in laws coming on friday. :eek: so no rest for me.

    I have decided to take the job position to annoy the woman! She said "I understand if you choose not to work with me now"....

    so I deliberately said yes! it will annoy her more but to be honest her dept really needs the help. She doesn't see it, recognise it or want it. But it affects our business, so it needs to be done.

    Then my director asked if it was thought I could run the whole department... gulp. yes I could, but gulp. baby steps.

    hope you stop feeling sick, try to get some rest tonight. And Well done on getting house done so that Housing Officer was happy.
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Wow no wonder its a bad day! Well done on still taking it though and not letting her bully you into saying no :) Im sure it will all turn out good :D

    I doubt I will rest tbh but Im not going to decorate anything else tonight, Im going to sit and do nothing :o xx
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    Wow no wonder its a bad day! Well done on still taking it though and not letting her bully you into saying no :) Im sure it will all turn out good :D

    I doubt I will rest tbh but Im not going to decorate anything else tonight, Im going to sit and do nothing :o xx

    that's it, isn't it, she is bullying everyone by shouting, swearing and slamming her door.

    aww well resting will hopefully come out of sitting and doing nothing. Hope you feel better soon xx
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Aesop wrote: »
    that's it, isn't it, she is bullying everyone by shouting, swearing and slamming her door.

    aww well resting will hopefully come out of sitting and doing nothing. Hope you feel better soon xx

    Definatly seems shes acting like a stroppy teenager :cool:

    Thank you :) I suppose I should stop worrying myself sick about something theres nothing I can do anything about and what will be will be :o
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,458 Ambassador
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    Wouldent want to put up with someone behaving like that Aesop, that is dire.

    Good to have a rest HI.
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  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Ok so I think "friend" is becoming more than just a friend :eek:

    BUT I'm not sure ....

    He's been hanging on for months now (This came on the cards over 12 months ago and I've sort of pushed him away since) I can say when he went back to the "evil" ex which is another story I actually felt jealous :o:o Hmm .. must think some more

    He is however on his way home from work early for me and should arrive back here quite late so I must not fall to sleep! Lol
  • Hovel_lady
    Hovel_lady Posts: 4,291 Forumite
    Hmm, I did think he might be more than just a friend ;)

    Don't fall asleep now...:D
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Hovel_lady wrote: »
    Hmm, I did think he might be more than just a friend ;)

    Don't fall asleep now...:D

    Is it that obvious :rotfl::rotfl: I hope he never reads this ...he still doesnt know what I really think :o
  • Hovel_lady
    Hovel_lady Posts: 4,291 Forumite
    Is it that obvious :rotfl::rotfl: I hope he never reads this ...he still doesnt know what I really think :o
    Yes!!! :D:p :rotfl:
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Hovel_lady wrote: »
    Yes!!! :D:p :rotfl:

    :rotfl::rotfl:

    Maybe it's worth trying, then again knowing me maybe its best left as it is lol

    Hope your well? x
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