Depression

Tiff_2

elona wrote:

I went to a memorial service at the hospice where my Dad died in August - with DH and all four daughters. It was very helpful and I had tears pouring down my face but it felt healing - if you know what I mean.

Just got back an hour ago and am typing this in the library.

Hi elona hun!
Bless your heart angel. You're going through all that and you still found time to think of others - but that's you all over hun.:A Thank you very much for thinking of me.
I'm glad all DD's got to go elona. I do know what you mean about tears being cathartic -as you know, it was just a year ago since my Dad died. There's nothing wrong with tears of love angel. I imagine it was a lovely way to pay tribute hun and I'm glad you weren't alone. I'm sure Dad's very proud of you elona. I wish you love and peace sweetheart. If you need a hug, just shout hun.

Silly Ol' Tiff's having a cry now!:rolleyes: Can't have that - don't want the others thinking I've turned into a Trembly Tiff!!!:eek: Here we go...



that's fixed it!;) :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

elona

((((Tiff)))))

I'm crying again!

Big hug.

Pumpkin_Pie_5

Thank you Tiff so much for your lovely post. My OH has rung the doctor and I have a sicknote for another week. He will ring my work tomorrow. It IS a load off my mind. So much so that I am having a bath (what is it about lows that make you so stinky?)

Elona, so sorry to hear about your dad - Ilost mine in July sio I have some idea of the hell you are going through and how lovely of youto think about others at this time.

Thank youall for making me feel so welcome here - My OH does what he can but it is so hard trying to explain to someone who doesn't suffer.

With hugs

Pumpkin x

Tiff_2

Hi rose!:hello:

Welcome home!

rose07 wrote:

Hi everyone miro, tiff, fg, saz, ethel, elona, gl, ltd, and well... everyone you know who you are by now, lol. including the newbies, welcome to our humble abode, lol , i see we have a new place, hmm might take me a while to find my comfy chair. lol
Rosie is back from gran's
first my gran is doing ok, she is a fighter.

I'm so glad you saw her and that she's not too bad. I bet it did her the world of good seeing you.

rose07 wrote:

and tiff i am sooo sorry to hear about your mum, its soo not fair hun, esp when its sooo close to your dad, but you know where i am if you need me hun, i am here anytime xxx
BIG ROSIE HUG
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Awww - thanks hun. That's really kind of you and I'll shout if I need you angel. Glad to hear you enjoyed your trip.:T

ok so rosie has some news...........
when i was in glasgow i went to the Big Brother audition :eek: , all i can say is WOW.
i was on edge for 3 hours just waiting in a que, i made some mates and clicked instantly with soo many people , was an amazing atmosphere. i never thought i would do it, as there was sooo many people, i was all on me own, and did not know where i was. lol yeah i know i was in glasgow. anyway it tested me alot as farr as my confidence, my self esteem, and my nerves, stress and anxiety levels etc.... so if you ever need a major challenge just try it. lol

See guys - you just never know where she'll pop up next! Keep your eye on NO.10 everyone!!!:eek:
Rose, that sounds fantastic! What did you have to do hun? Details!!! Did you make it? It sounds like you had a fantastic time - good for you hun. :T Now make sure you keep on looking after yourself PROPERLY y'hear?;)
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Pumpkin_Pie_5

learning_to_drive wrote:

Just to echo Tiff's sentiments, if you had a broken leg then you wouldn't be expected to work, in fairness there is still a stigma attatched to mental illness that because you can't see the illness doesn't mean it isn't there.

Ive got an appointment to see a counsellor on Weds, Im very positive about this, Im off to asda in a bit for phase 2 of my induction! Lovely!

Take care folks, didnt have the bottle to ring FD so I e-messaged them explaining the problems and asked them to ring me, they will be sympathetic as they are pretty good, Ill give CCCS a call tomorrow too!

Thank you x

Good luck with CCCS - I hear they are very good, Learning_to_drive. And good luck with the Asda induction too:D

Pumpkin x

Tiff_2

Only Tiff popping her head around the door!:D


Wishing you all a good night. May be able to get back on later or early tomorrow.
Sazbomb - good luck with the counselling.
Miro - thinking of you angel.
Ethel - when you've had time to breathe, let us know how you are.
Pumpkinpie - don't be a stranger hun!
Mrs.a - hope you're all right hun - thinking of you too.
Look after each other.;)
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

gillette147

Hiya all of you xx

Golly It's taken me ages to readback.
May god rain happiness down upon you all.

The most depressing thing I find, is how many new people we are getting joining our thread. But I welcome the latest batch of posters with open arms. "I don't know much...but I know I love you..."

Tiff
My thoughts are with you and your mom. All the best and a hug from me xx

Ethel
Hope the doctors has brought some light about the arm. You've still got two good legs - so give that family a good kicking from me. You need help from those that can do xx

Miro
Manly hug mate. You deserve to be happy - you make sure that you build your life so that you are.

Rose
I'm keen to hear your B Brova story too.
Sorry.......but you ain't mad enuff for that programme xx

Feelie
I hope you are enjoying your long wet walks xx

........and so many other posters on here........
My thoughts are with you all, you lovely people
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Sazbo

Hi Gilly :hello: How's things with you hun? Sazzyxx

gillette147

...........and as for me?

I've just had an almost wonderful weekend (villa lost to Man U and took the edge off it lol)

I guess you could say I'm with someone now. I'm only telling you all coz I know how Blinky's exploits have cheered me up in the past.

I feel I can get up tomorrow and tackle the jobsearch people and get my plan for employment underway. Five days into my ADs and I don't know of any differences in my actual problems (my mood has lifted a bit because of the above rather than any drugs). I thought my kidney's were failing for a couple of days - but I think it's gone away.

I will keep you informed - but you needn't read it if you've got more important things to be getting on with.

Blessings upon your house

PS
CC come back!

learning_to_drive

The 2nd phase went very well, everyone so so friendly, I'm very impressed and rather happy If I'm honest

Expecting bank to call me tomorrow to discuss my overdraft, that will be a weight off my mind to know that my DD's will be covered, been a nightmare recently and not had a full payday since September due to lower hours / changing jobs etc. Asda should be good for my money because I'll be on nights and not able to spend more.

I've sorted out a budget and had a LBM, I'm very savvy with money but I never get anywhere because I have the same outgoings and lower incomes! Not only that but my car tax is due next month which isn't good .

CCCS I will call tomorrow for sure, just to see what they recommend, im determined to get myself better and sort out my cash, but I never have any cash, I never had any when i was earning and well so its hitting me a lot harder now!