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Third Time Lucky with a Date!!

Well, we have now RE, RE booked our Wedding for Sunday 6 May. Its the second time we have had to re book it, first time, the venue were incompetent, second time, the ex manager took a booking, took the deposit and then did a runner! The venue then booked us onto the date and then discovered the paperwork shoved in a folder.

We have got the following booked and sorted:

Venue (includes disco in the evening)
Registrar
Dress
Cake
Cheese cake
Bridesmaid dress (only having 1)
Evening Invites are ready to be made
Appointment to give notice is made
Confirm the Band price and availability

I did have the photographer booked, but she cant do the new date. We had a real bargain with the last one, but I doubt we will get anything like now with a new one. Does anyone know a good photographer in the South Staffordshire area who doesnt cost the earth!!
Married the absolute love of my life on Sunday May 6th and I couldnt be happier!!!

Comments

  • Tiara_2
    Tiara_2 Posts: 1,203 Forumite
    Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry to hear you've had such a stressful time of it. I will bekeeping fingers and toes crossed that everything goes smoothly for you from now on.
    I'm sad to lose you from the August thread, but will pop in to the May one from time to time to see how you're getting on.

    Best of luck with it all my dear :grouphug:
  • VfM4meplse
    VfM4meplse Posts: 34,269 Forumite
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    Bless, you really have been unlucky! It seems to me that other people's actions have effectively dictated when you will marry your OH.

    I don't have any experience of hiring a photographer, but can I ask a question instead? Why wait until May to get married? - ie why not have a v. low key wedding asap and have the blessing / reception you want as per your plans for May?
    Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!

    "No man is worth, crawling on the earth"- adapted from Bob Crewe and Bob Gaudio

    Hope is not a strategy :D...A child is for life, not just 18 years....Don't get me started on the NHS, because you won't win...I love chaz-ing!
  • BLUis
    BLUis Posts: 773 Forumite
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    VfM4meplse wrote: »
    Bless, you really have been unlucky! It seems to me that other people's actions have effectively dictated when you will marry your OH.

    I don't have any experience of hiring a photographer, but can I ask a question instead? Why wait until May to get married? - ie why not have a v. low key wedding asap and have the blessing / reception you want as per your plans for May?

    We were having it on 25 August 2012, then moved it forward to June 3rd 2012, now its May 6th 2012!

    We dont want to bring it forward any further as we both want to lose weight and the date is actually quite suitable now!
    Married the absolute love of my life on Sunday May 6th and I couldnt be happier!!!
  • Hollie84
    Hollie84 Posts: 2,428 Forumite
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    O my hun what a nightmare.i can recomend a photographer who is the cheapest in the tamworth area,cant see why he wouldnt travel to you, worth a try
    http://www.davejoicey.co.uk/
    He's a lovely guy.must be surreal that u thought u wouldnt be married till august and now your going to be married well before lol fab
  • BLUis
    BLUis Posts: 773 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Tiara wrote: »
    Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry to hear you've had such a stressful time of it. I will bekeeping fingers and toes crossed that everything goes smoothly for you from now on.
    I'm sad to lose you from the August thread, but will pop in to the May one from time to time to see how you're getting on.

    Best of luck with it all my dear :grouphug:

    Thanks Tiara, I feel like I'm on a flaming pinball machine!!
    Married the absolute love of my life on Sunday May 6th and I couldnt be happier!!!
  • ruthybabs
    ruthybabs Posts: 164 Forumite
    Hi

    Sounds as though you've had a bumpy ride, but glad things are getting sorted for you. Your new date should be lovely and is a bank holiday too which should be appreciated by your guests. Pop over to the May board, we're a lovely group (if I say so myself!) and we'd love to hear exactly what you're planning.
    Hopefully see you there soon x
    Married the man of my dreams May 4th 2012


    Wins 2012: 4 X 20E vouchers, multipack of crisps, Vampire T-shirt

    Aiming for a holiday or the lottery ;)
  • I'm glad you've got a new date sorted BLUis :)

    I hope everything goes well with this one and that you manage to get a new photographer.

    I hope you've had your bad luck and hopefully everything now will run smoothly :)

    Third time lucky! ;) Best of luck :)
    Planned our wedding, still planning lessons
    :smileyheaSaid "I do" on 4th June 2012:smileyhea
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