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Advice on difficult situation please

lightspeed · 2006-12-31 12:18:58

Hi All I recently (June 06) purchased a property for 154K with my partner, this was below market value due to the state the property was in. We put a 10% deposit down leaving a 139K mortgage. Our joint income is 18K (hers) and 23K (mine). Since the purchase we have not moved into the house because we decided to completely…

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MortgageMamma Posts: 6,686 Forumite

1 January 2007 at 3:10PM

I agree, don't offer to do anything. Bide your time. You've been in this relationship for 10 years, even if its not salvageable, you still need to take time and space to yourself to work out what to do. So long as she is still prepared to pay her half of the mortgage until you have sorted your settlement you dont have a problem just now.

I hope you are feeling better today, relationship break ups are tough at this time of year, I know from experience. Go easy on yourself.

Best wishes

MM

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