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I would like to thank you all!

As you can see by my post count, I don't post very often. I have been lurking for a while though. Long before I got my user id.

I had my LBM in August this year - but I knew I had a problem before that! Through reading the posts on this forum, I have learned a lot. I have also gained a lot of strength and motivation from hearing about others in situations similar to mine.

For the first time in many years, I have done all my Christmas shopping without using any credit cards. I've even made some money through Quidco, which will go towards next Christmas.

For the first time in a long time, I'm not using my overdraft facility. I'm in the black :j

And these are only two examples.

I don't feel alone with my problem anymore.
So to all of you who've helped me without even knowing it, thank you.
LBM: August 2006 £12,568.49 - DFD 22nd March 2012
"The road to DF is long and bumpy" GreenSaints

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  • Welcome, glad we are being of some help to you.
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  • January20
    January20 Posts: 3,769 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Welcome, glad we are being of some help to you.

    You are giving me a lot of help, because I don't want to talk about it to my friends and family.
    LBM: August 2006 £12,568.49 - DFD 22nd March 2012
    "The road to DF is long and bumpy" GreenSaints
  • Tustastic
    Tustastic Posts: 2,096 Forumite
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    January20 wrote:
    You are giving me a lot of help, because I don't want to talk about it to my friends and family.

    From what I can gather on MSE, the friends and relatives with the shiniest cars and biggest houses are often the ones secretly worried sick by their own debts. You may not want to boast about how you are dealing with your debts, but you are allowed to feel proud inside. :)
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  • Absolutely! This site is the best ever. My inlaws know the extent of our debts and actually understand but I could never tell my parents. I let slip the other day that we are struggling to my mum and she made me feel 6 all over again!
    If you wait for perfect conditions, nothing would ever get done! :T
    I'm not short - I'm condensed awesome! :p
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Hi and welcome...it's amazing this site...isn't it?:beer:
  • System
    System Posts: 178,426 Community Admin
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    Isnt this board just great. The people and support on here are simply fantastic - it never ceases to amaze me!
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  • lil_me
    lil_me Posts: 13,186 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    :T Well done, I've been able to do the same this year, first time evert, great feeling isn't it!
    One day I might be more organised...........:confused:
    GC: £200
    Slinkies target 2018 - another 70lb off (half way to what the NHS says) so far 25lb
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