app 12th july

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I have my or app its the 12th july.
she said telephone one but ive opted for a face to face one as i recken ill be able to get myself accross better.
today i totally fell apart though and just keep crying, what a mess :(
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  • iquit
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    Sorry you're having such an emotional time, we have all been there. Keep checking in here and you will get great support. Good luck and all the best for 12/07/11.
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  • philnicandamy
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    Try not to worry....I didnt have the option & had a ftf interview and to be honest I found that better & easier than a telephone one

    they allow you time to answer...breaks if you need a breather and most of all they understand how you are & can see what effect this has had on you
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  • mandyl
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    Try not to worry....I didnt have the option & had a ftf interview and to be honest I found that better & easier than a telephone one

    they allow you time to answer...breaks if you need a breather and most of all they understand how you are & can see what effect this has had on you
    thankyou v much
    what happens if i burst into tears? will i get into trouble?
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  • Ineedaname
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    I was asked to attend ftf but asked for a telephone interview as I'm more comfortable at home and have all my paperwork around me. So I knew I could answer anything they asked me if I needed to look it up. I was worried that attending the ftf would take too much out of me physically and also how I'd transport all my files to the interview.

    In the end, I didn't need to refer to any paperwork other than the BR forms as the OR just went through that page by page and most of the answers were in there anyway.
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  • unhappytinkerbell
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    Be strong I'm sure it will Be much better than you Anticipate.. Thinking of you x
  • mandyl
    mandyl Posts: 806 Forumite
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    Ineedaname wrote: »
    I was asked to attend ftf but asked for a telephone interview as I'm more comfortable at home and have all my paperwork around me. So I knew I could answer anything they asked me if I needed to look it up. I was worried that attending the ftf would take too much out of me physically and also how I'd transport all my files to the interview.

    In the end, I didn't need to refer to any paperwork other than the BR forms as the OR just went through that page by page and most of the answers were in there anyway.
    i can understand that one.
    for me i recken it will be better as ill have a friend with me. if it was over phone id be alone and alone after to
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  • dojoman
    dojoman Posts: 12,027 Forumite
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    Try not to worry mandy, you will be fine. I would have preferred a face to face interview, but the office that dealt with my BR at the time was so busy it had to be done by phone.
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