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Words Of Advice

Hi folks,

What lessons, gems of wisdom & words of advice can i pass on to my son who is off to uni next year.

I would like for him to start his working life with as little debt as possible. He's gonna have to resort to getting a student loan to help with tuition fees etc, so I feel that debt is inevitable. He currently works part time & is trying to save at least £1,500 before he starts.

Many thanks
Pattie1968
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  • climbgirl
    climbgirl Posts: 1,504 Forumite
    Teach him how to budget and live within his means.
  • whatatwit
    whatatwit Posts: 5,424 Forumite
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    Teach him to cook Old Style, and how to be a savvy shopper.
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  • I have just graduated and tips from me would be:

    1.Get a student loan, its required and well worth it! Cheap pay back as well!!
    2.Do not get sucked into the student offers on credit cards, the companies are everywhere offering free limo rides, free cameras, free money, free phones all to give them £1000 credit. Avoid it!!
    3.Socialise, its required and a must do but you dont need to go out every night except freshers week.
    4.Shop for the offers in supermarkets and dont buy too much frozxen food as sharing frezzer space is limited..
    5.Dont buy toaster, kettle plates etc... as everyone else buys them in a flat first year and you dont need 6 or 7 of them!
    6.dont buy all inclusive meals first year, cheap but not all students use them.

    I'll think of some more but my boss is onto me on the internet!

    Good luck!!
    MSE - Longtime learner of debt management, better at helping others than sorting myself out. Plans to move house in 2014. Deposit saving begins!
  • He's already trying to come up with as many meal variations for rice, tinned tuna & mixed veg, or pasta, tinned tuna & mixed veg!! I think he's up to 5!!

    :D
  • James007, those are real gems, thanks :A
  • Pattie1968 wrote:
    Hi folks,

    What lessons, gems of wisdom & words of advice can i pass on to my son who is off to uni next year.

    I would like for him to start his working life with as little debt as possible. He's gonna have to resort to getting a student loan to help with tuition fees etc, so I feel that debt is inevitable. He currently works part time & is trying to save at least £1,500 before he starts.

    Many thanks
    Pattie1968

    I know that this is going to sound a bit obvious, but:

    Budget
    Learn to cook
    Learn to "make do and mend"
    Buy what you need, not what you want
    Get a part time job during term time (preferably something related to his degree)
    Make sure that if he does have to borrow it is for a specific reason and that it is at the best rate possible
    Go for the student account which gives the best financial incentives, (rail cards, better graduate packages etc) rather than the one that gives the trendiest incentives (I-Pods, discount cards etc)
    Never assume that three years (and hence repayment and the real world) is a long time away!

    Kat
  • Emmzi
    Emmzi Posts: 8,658 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Learn to appreciate trendy 'vintage' i.e. charity shop clothes!
    Debt free 4th April 2007.
    New house. Bigger mortgage. MFWB after I have my buffer cash in place.
  • if he got a job in a supermarket he would be able to pick up reduced food and possibly be able to transfer to the local branch when he came home in the holidays.
  • Dont get suckered into to 'Takeaway' culture - eat before you go out, then you'll resist the temptation of a kebab on the way home !

    Homebrew :)

    As an alternative to a supermarket job , a bar job can kill 2 birds with 1 stone - you can see your friends , and earn money !

    Don't buy every textbook on your list - you'll quicky find out which ones are essential and which ones you can borrow from the library.
  • forsya
    forsya Posts: 251 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    My advice would be to show him this website and all the useful information on it and people who are in debt, so he will think I don't want to get into debt.
    Became debt free in 2007 after having £15k of debt. Have been a stranger to MSE and now want to get back into my old MSE habits and save, save, save
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