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wolfers
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Well, it's a little after midnight and I just checked the insolvency register as I'm marked as "discharged" 
As I was promised at the time, the year has gone by surprisingly quickly. The hardest part by far was the emotional part: the uncertainty, the worrying, the waiting, the feeling of being trapped, punished, not in control, of being a second-class citizen, of wondering what my friends really thought.
I couldn't have got through it without this website and the terrific people who contribute to it, I really couldn't. It's been my "safe place" -- a refuge, a place where I've felt I'm among friends, people who really "get it".
So thank you everyone for making this such a supportive community. I really do appreciate it
As I was promised at the time, the year has gone by surprisingly quickly. The hardest part by far was the emotional part: the uncertainty, the worrying, the waiting, the feeling of being trapped, punished, not in control, of being a second-class citizen, of wondering what my friends really thought.
I couldn't have got through it without this website and the terrific people who contribute to it, I really couldn't. It's been my "safe place" -- a refuge, a place where I've felt I'm among friends, people who really "get it".
So thank you everyone for making this such a supportive community. I really do appreciate it
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i'm glad i was passing the br board tonight! wow where has the year gone! i'm glad the year has passed quickly for you...i hope you stick around! x0
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Congratulations on having your year pass by, wishing you all the best in your future.2019 MFW No. 74 £13700/£30000 (45.66%)
12k in 2018 No. 98 £6274.19/£18000 (34.85%)
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That brings me hope because I to am stressing about being BR and having the OR 'hovering' over me, although I know he isn't really.
Congratulations on your AD, this is the start of a new life for you.When I joined, I needed a name. The forum members gave one to me...I am INAN
"Fortunes ebb and flow and a boat must move with the tide and be thankful that it floats." Judith Allnatt0 -
Ineedaname wrote: »the OR 'hovering' over me
It's a horrible feeling, isn't it. It was made even worse when the IPA rules were changed. I didn't have an IPA initially -- my agreed surplus was only £12 -- but I was very worried I might be reassessed, even though I'd probably still have been under the £20 limit.
I wasn't reassessed -- after my initial telephone interview I never heard from my OR again.0 -
Good news. Good luck in your solvent future!
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Bloody hell wolfers...where did that year go?
Huge congrats to you & best wishes for the futureWe all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will0 -
whoop whoooooBuilding a new life after bankruptcy0
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Wolfers its a lovely feeling isn't it!! Hope you had a drink or two :beer:
Best wishes
If...x
"If wishes were horses, then beggars would ride"
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