We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

some advice please

me and my partner have split back in feb. we have had a joint mortgage together for 3years. i have left the house and moved back in with parents. my ex remains in the house and is refusing to move out so cant rent it. we have had the house valued and it has come in at £99.995. we have a mortgage for £109.000 currently. neither of us can afford to buy each other out and obviously with big loss and would end up taking on more debt do not want to sell it. the mortgage company will not sign the house to my ex as he has recently set up new business and they have asked for two years books before they consider it plus a deposit. i have been paying my half of the mortgage and am seeking solictors advice tomorrow. just wondering is there any way at all i can get my name off mortgage as i am never going to be able to get my own place if have to continue paying half a mortgage on a house i dont even live in. he has been to a solictor for some advice and one thing he said was he would pay the mortage if i agree to sign something to say i dont want any profit from the house if it sells however am i right in thinking if he didnt pay the mortgage then i would be liable to pay? if so this agreement is not in my best interest!!! would be grateful for any advice xx

Comments

  • hcb42
    hcb42 Posts: 5,962 Forumite
    You are both jointly liable so if he doesnt pay, yes they will come after you in full.

    You need to sell if neither of you can keep it on, and you will then need to find the shortfall e.g. £10K if it sells at £99K

    See what the solicitor says re the agreement..
  • holly_hobby
    holly_hobby Posts: 5,363 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    edited 8 June 2011 at 9:00AM
    Whether you effect a legal agreement declaring that you will not seek any equity realised on the disposal of the property is irrelevant to liability - as whilst you remain party to the mortgage - you remain party to the debt - simple as.

    The only option I can suggest to release you from your mge commitment is to sadly push for sale of the property.

    You may have to get a court order, if your ex partner does not initially agree to the sale - but as long as there are no children living at the property - it will usually be granted.

    Of course any legal intervention will have a fee (solicitor & court), but I would wager if it gets you out of this mess you would gladly accept it.

    Best of luck

    Holly
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 353.9K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.3K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.2K Spending & Discounts
  • 246.9K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 603.5K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.3K Life & Family
  • 261.1K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.