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table plan questions

Are you putting full names (including surnames)
Or are you just putting…. Sam W

We have a couple of people with the same first names you see- put on the place cards we have put their surnames

Also on the top table are you putting bride and groom or your names?
Is a married woman!! 23rd July 2011 Best day of my life!

TTC first baby Jan 2013

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  • Curious_George_2
    Curious_George_2 Posts: 2,501 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    im not having a table plan, but all the ones ive seen have surnames on,
    it takes away all chances of a mistake with same names / initials etc

    i would probably have our first names instead of bride and groom because then you can put your bridal parties names too instead of "mother of the bride" and things that might be a bit long for the space you have to write in!
  • Dekazer
    Dekazer Posts: 452 Forumite
    All the weddings I've been to have had both first and surname. The number of times I've been given OH's surname as the B&G obviously haven't known mine.

    It means you need to know the names of everyone's plus ones and partners, including which surname they take :)
  • zcrat41
    zcrat41 Posts: 1,799 Forumite
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    Hi Sammy,
    I wrote mine this week. I did first names and surnames as we have a lot of Margarets and Johns! I also did our names rather than Bride and Groom purely for the pleasure of writing my new name!

    ZC
  • aarchk
    aarchk Posts: 479 Forumite
    So long as you dont have two Katie Gs and Brian Xs. On my planner we put surnames but we bunched couples and childresn together eg. Charles and Jane Wotsit.

    I didnt think about what to put for Hubby and me as the planner was done by a sister the day before the wedding and I didnt notice but she did put me with my new surname which I thought was brill as it was the first use of it.
  • sammy_wheeler
    sammy_wheeler Posts: 2,351 Forumite
    thanks everyone :)
    Is a married woman!! 23rd July 2011 Best day of my life!

    TTC first baby Jan 2013
  • ellay864
    ellay864 Posts: 3,827 Forumite
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    I'm doing full names and I'm also doing the same as zrcat and writing mine and OH names as Mr and Mrs with full names, just because I can :)
  • sammy_wheeler
    sammy_wheeler Posts: 2,351 Forumite
    thanks ellay
    did you see what i posted about chester registry office the other day?
    Is a married woman!! 23rd July 2011 Best day of my life!

    TTC first baby Jan 2013
  • ellay864
    ellay864 Posts: 3,827 Forumite
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    oh not sure sammy...which thread was it in? I meant to ask how you got on with your pre-visit/chat with them - what did you have to do or give them?
  • sammy_wheeler
    sammy_wheeler Posts: 2,351 Forumite
    its in 'im your angel' i rang them about the song- and they fine with it- spoke to christine- she was lovely- she said that they are fine with songs like that, its just hymns they dont allow.
    and she said that christine is the registar that will be marrying us- and she is getting in contact with me end of june to do the meeting in july :)
    Is a married woman!! 23rd July 2011 Best day of my life!

    TTC first baby Jan 2013
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