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THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 3

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  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Am worried about Startagain. I hope she is ok.

    Does she still do her diary Kit? Sorry, I've not kept up to date on her
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Hi susan, i had a late night again i haven't been in touch. Steve has kept me posted. I am either asleep or working silly hours at the moment so a bit out of touch. Sorry.

    Are you feeling better?
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  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    By the way, Mam is not too good again. Getting quite shouty again, mainly in afternoons/evenings. When my sister got there at teatime today, door was closed and Mam was distressed and shouting. My sis checked her and she had soiled herself so needed changing, so she got the carers to come change her, and she settled straight away, to eat her dinner and pud ok
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • savingwannabe
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    SA has started at a new workplace. Part of the previous company but close to where she lives however her boss is a right meanie and has been picking on her. She has gone it determined not to let them get her down but we all know how difficult it is. She has had a difficult childhood and is like me with no self confidence so she is getting down and now not posting. The scary thing is that she has been logging on but at 4am in the morning. Suggesting that she is not sleeping which is not good. I sent her my phone number and we will see if she can call me or someone as that might help. Poor flower. I want her to be so happy. She is such a positive person.
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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Glad your mam is eating. Sorry she is so distressed though. Very painful to watch for you all.:(
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Hi susan, i had a late night again i haven't been in touch. Steve has kept me posted. I am either asleep or working silly hours at the moment so a bit out of touch. Sorry.

    Are you feeling better?

    Yes, I am almost beck to normal, whatever that is, hehe :D:D

    It's Ok hun, I know how hard you are working at the moment hun :) You must be ker-nackered
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    That's sad about StartAgain, as we know how low that can make people :(:( Hope she gets in touch. Perhaps if you pm's her your email address she may contact you, but might not want to actually talk on the phone hun. Don't put it on her thread though, just pm her ;)
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Voice keeps going in evenings am not used to talking on phone when i get in after gabbling carp all day but am feeling happy for now so jolly grateful.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Yep i did. I just pmd her i know her home email but this shows up so it should be easy for her to see. She was so helpful to me when i was down i want her to be ok. She tries so hard but life is so difficult sometimes. We just have to keep going and not let the [EMAIL="B@@@@@@s"]B@@@@@@s[/EMAIL] win ya know?
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  • beanielou
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    Sorry bout your mam 3dogs :(

    Catch you all tomorrow.
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