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Non traditional best man gifts

My OH has two best men (don't ask!) and we'd like to get them a special something to say thanks on the day. I don't think they'd appreciate the usual tankard, cufflink type gifts, I've budgeted £50 each but would be prepared to go up a bit for the right gift. I just wonder whether any of you lovely people have any ideas, they're both lighthearted easy going people, not terribly materialistic, both like good food and drink but I'd like to get them something longer lasting! I know it's a long shot, I guess I'll just know the right thing when I see it!

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  • bettyB_2
    bettyB_2 Posts: 1,286 Forumite
    Tricky one - how about an 'experience' gift? like a go in a fast car or something? I think you can get them for about £60.
    Betty B: The Eternal Procrastinator....
    Why Put Off Until Tomorrow What You Can Do Today? :A
  • bargin_seeker
    bargin_seeker Posts: 105 Forumite
    i thought that an experiance day but she mentioned she wanted something that would last. how about a chain as they will most prob wear this and eveytime they see it think of your day x hope this helps maybe something to tick off a list if you really dont like the idea IYNWIM x
    Married the man of my dreams 27/08/2011
  • bettyB_2
    bettyB_2 Posts: 1,286 Forumite
    It depends on the guys I suppose - If they're not into cufflinks, tankards, etc, then jewellery might not be up their alley either.

    If you dont fancy getting them an experience Amy, as it's not long lasting (if you dont count memories and photos) then how about a membership of some sort (beer of the month? like this sort of thing http://www.beerhere.co.uk/acatalog/Beer_Club_Membership.html)
    or a hipflask, or something for the kitchen if they cook?!!
    Betty B: The Eternal Procrastinator....
    Why Put Off Until Tomorrow What You Can Do Today? :A
  • Amymo
    Amymo Posts: 514 Forumite
    Thanks guys, lots of good ideas, hadn't thought about the experience, I might have a look at red letter day type websites to get a few ideas, making memories is never a bad gify idea! My OH wants to get em both the same gift otherwise beer is good for one of them, maybe a case of wine for the other though, I'm trying to get OH to come up with some ideas but with two months to go apparently we have 'ages'!
  • twirlypinky
    twirlypinky Posts: 2,415 Forumite
    it is likely not to help you because i doubt you live near me, but our best man is h2b's dad and he's always loved our local footy team. They've not had a pitch/stadium whatever they're called for a few years and they're now building one and doing this sponsor a brick thing. So we're buying him a brick!

    Sponsoring something could be an option?
    saving up another deposit as we've lost all our equity.
    We're 29% of the way there...
  • curlylou1986
    curlylou1986 Posts: 375 Forumite
    Not sure what to suggest really...
    but we got these for all our bridal party -
    http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170527860050

    have you looked on gettingpersonalised ? they have some nice unusual bits. We were thinking about getting football magazine covers in frame for the corresponding team and their name added to the tshirt they have on there.
    http://www.gettingpersonal.co.uk/gifts-for-him/gifts-for-him.htm
    :heart2:Married my Prince Charming on 15th April 2011 - perfect day!

    Our little princess born 8th June - she is amazing!! :grinheart

    Honeymoon Disney World Florida - Jan 2012!
  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    We had a similar problem with my 2 sons.....we bought them a ted Baker leather wallet each (something they will use every day) and put a £20 note into each (so they could buy their mum & her new husband a drink!)....they have a good selection of nice designer ones in John Lewis.
  • Slickster
    Slickster Posts: 65 Forumite
    In the end I went for an engraved Car Tax Disc holder. If he didn't like it as a keepsake, he could always use it!
  • pinkmum2010
    pinkmum2010 Posts: 125 Forumite
    i was thinking characatures for our bestmen, bridemaids etc
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