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HELP! Bridesmaid Dress!
Layla_CK
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So, to cut a long story short, I need a bridesmaid dress that Debenhams have now stopped doing, well they do it in every other colour of the rainbow, but stopped doing it in purple 
Does anyone know where I can get this dress
http://www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/prod_10001_10001_008010413647_-1
But in purple in a size 18 or 20? I have a size 16 and it won't do up around the boobs - the wedding is at the end of May this year and there are three other bridesmaids who are wearing this dress so I have to have the same dress
Does anyone know where I can get this dress
http://www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/prod_10001_10001_008010413647_-1
But in purple in a size 18 or 20? I have a size 16 and it won't do up around the boobs - the wedding is at the end of May this year and there are three other bridesmaids who are wearing this dress so I have to have the same dress
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Can it be altered?
Can the BM is question loose a little weight before the end of May?
Maybe with a little weight loss and an alteration it might be ok.
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yeah, they have none

It may be possible to loose some more weight but I have already lost 3 stone this year and barely any of it has gone off my boobs so doubtful it will fit
Not sure if it can be altered - that is the next port of call I think
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Did the bride buy it too small for you? If so, surely it's her responsibility to sort it out?
Have you tried ebay?0 -
Have only found smaller sizes so far on ebay for you. :S
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Are the three of you wearing boleros? Could you get the strapless version? I think if everyone was wearing a bolero it'd look close enough to the others.0 -
No, I told her to get a 16 as I was losing so much weight and assumed I would also loose it on my boobs - I am a size 14/16 now, but this dress in a 16 just will not do up
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well I have to say whilst the dress may not fit ..congrats on the weight loss...thats a great achievement whichever way you look at it...would it be a case of some pull in underwear and a different bra or a different style that doesnt push up so to speak...maybe a minimiser to see it that allows the dress to do up?
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size 20 on ebay
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/Worn-Once-Debut-Evening-Dress-Bridesmaid-Size-20-/160572484268?pt=UK_Wedding_Clothing&hash=item2562ddaaac
with a bolero i think it might be it.0 -
Hi,
I wore this dress when I was bridesmaid for my sister in January. I too struggled a bit to get it to fasten around my boobs but found that 'lifting them out' while the dress was fastened and then popping them back in helped a lot. I'm sorry I can't think of any other way to describe it. Unfortunately my dress or the other bridesmaid is not in the size you require.
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Hi,
I wore this dress when I was bridesmaid for my sister in January. I too struggled a bit to get it to fasten around my boobs but found that 'lifting them out' while the dress was fastened and then popping them back in helped a lot. I'm sorry I can't think of any other way to describe it. Unfortunately my dress or the other bridesmaid is not in the size you require.
Good luck
I'm a larger cup size and do this all the time when doing up dresses.
May be worth a try OP? Zips are tougher than you'd think.
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