Fed up

snookey

Hi feel like Im going to scream. After putting the mortgage money in oh account he has now addmitted it will need topping up. He failed to tell me of dd that go out and insists he told me about them:mad:.
It makes me so mad as Im really trying to sort things out and he is making out as if Its my fault. Said I just steamed ahead and put it in his account, which I did not as Id shown him the calculations and gone through what ,:mad:and when money goes in and comes out.
He makes out he is the injured party when things go wrong. Well this time he is not getting away with it, I may have a mental health issue but Im not stupid.:mad:.
Sorry I just needed to let off steam as I feel so upset and angry.

Lexxi

((((hugs)))) didn't want to leave you feeling so cross at this time!

Is there anyway you could get a joint account for all the bills to go out of? Or put a spreadsheet or even just a list together that would show your direct debits?

snookey

Hi Lexxi I will be having all of his money bar a small amount paid into my account from Monday. Its just that he has made excuses about not looking at his dd ie he banks on line and computer has lost data. He has no paper bank statements.
Im mad that Iv had to use money from my account and its not gone to the right people. He pays the mortgage ,tv broadband from his account and I pay everything else. I dont have any dd as I pay cash . From this month I will overtake the mortgage hence why Im having most of his money paid into mine.
We dont have a joint account as Id rather it was this way as Im more carefull with money and its only due to being ill that we have a mortgage debt .
Thankyou for your hugs im feeling a lot calmer now. I guess its just letting go of the anger by writing it down.

Lexxi

At least you are moving forward and this is just a minor hiccup. Soon you will be able to get tighter controls of everything and start making inroads into the debt. I'm just trying to move all DDs to my account too but I get paid cash so I'm getting confused with it.

I'm glad you're feeling calmer, it's far too late to be getting wound up!

Culex

snookey wrote: »

Sorry I just needed to let off steam as I feel so upset and angry.

Just cut his nuts off.

You'll feel so much better afterwards. :rotfl: