joint loan worries after splitting with my ex husband

diamond_ring

hi im recentley divorced ex got house but still in my name aswell also we have a joint loan but admit i stopped paying my half once we split 2 years ago ive never recieved child maintance towards our child over the past 2 years however he is now paying towards her and has now stopped paying the loan im on benefits and is worried there going to start asking me to pay this loan as i can not afford it i carnt sleep and am highly stressed worring about it all can any one help me im soooo worried thanks

TengoNoDinero

Hi, I'm not really able to give you much advice, as I'm in similar sort of position myself, but just wanted to send you a big ((hug)).

What were the terms of your divorce settlement? I only ask as I have my Decree Nisi, but my solicitor won't let me apply for the Absolute until the financial details have been sorted out into a Court Order. I have been to Financial Mediation over this. Maybe that would help in your situation?

Try not to stress. Easy to say and far harder to do, but I'm sure someone will be along soon to give you some advice.

twiga_2

"i stopped paying my half"

What about your ex? Has anyone been making any payments towards this loan at all? Just curious.

I don't have any experience with this at all but I suspect that someone is going to have to make payments on this or face the music sooner or later.