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EEK! Tomorrow's the DAY
Ineedaname
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OK, I'll be leaving for Court shortly after 9 in the morning so might not have much time to log on before I go. I won't be on until after 3pm either as I have a busy day organised to take my mind off the deed after it's done.
Paperwork, money, bottle of water, book and my Blue Badge all ready to go. Organised disabled parking too so that's a relief as parking nearby isn't easy, even with the badge. My PA is driving me there so I'll even have company in the waiting room.
I know I'll be OK, I just so don't want to be doing this as some of my health issues mean I have a fear of authority and being in trouble. So this next 12 months is going to be far more stressful than the last 5 years on a DMP were.
Oh well, here I go then...
Paperwork, money, bottle of water, book and my Blue Badge all ready to go. Organised disabled parking too so that's a relief as parking nearby isn't easy, even with the badge. My PA is driving me there so I'll even have company in the waiting room.
I know I'll be OK, I just so don't want to be doing this as some of my health issues mean I have a fear of authority and being in trouble. So this next 12 months is going to be far more stressful than the last 5 years on a DMP were.
Oh well, here I go then...
When I joined, I needed a name. The forum members gave one to me...I am INAN 
"Fortunes ebb and flow and a boat must move with the tide and be thankful that it floats." Judith Allnatt
"Fortunes ebb and flow and a boat must move with the tide and be thankful that it floats." Judith Allnatt
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good luck tomorrow..you'll be fine. it's good you have someone going with you
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It's just hit me as I was thinking about going to bed, I've been fine all day. At least my plan of getting the paperwork done early last week worked, I've relaxed and not thought about it too much until now.When I joined, I needed a name. The forum members gave one to me...I am INAN
"Fortunes ebb and flow and a boat must move with the tide and be thankful that it floats." Judith Allnatt0 -
Best of luck, so glad you have some company, will be thinking of you. xx BSC 343 - AD March 2012
:smileyhea Take just one day at a time, you never know what tomorrow will bring....Be Happy! :wave:0 -
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IVA & fee charging DMP companies: Profits from misery, motivated ONLY by greed0 -
Hope it goes well, it will soon be over. Good Luck0
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Hi INAN, you sound well prepared. Its not as nice as you wish but it's never as bad as you fear.
Best wishes
If...x"If wishes were horses, then beggars would ride"
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Thank you all so much. I just feel this is the single worst thing I have had to do in my life, or ever will have to do. I'm going to pay for this day for the rest of my life because I shall always have to declare having gone BR and can see myself repeatedly explaining the circumstances of it. A fresh start? Well, sort of.When I joined, I needed a name. The forum members gave one to me...I am INAN
"Fortunes ebb and flow and a boat must move with the tide and be thankful that it floats." Judith Allnatt0 -
Good luck, although you will not need it :pB&SC No. 298
Life`s Tragedy is that we get OLD too soon
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INAN, Think of it like this, no more stressful and sleepless days/nights worrying it really is a new start and you will see more colours in your life again.......honest x"If wishes were horses, then beggars would ride"
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That's the rub If, I haven't been that stressed these last 5 years as the DMP has been running so smoothly. It's a huge shock to go from no letters from creditors and being fairly comfortable running a DMP, to suddenly going BR. This next year is going to be far more stressful than all of the 5 years just gone put together.
Oh well, gotta go, lift will be here in a minute.When I joined, I needed a name. The forum members gave one to me...I am INAN
"Fortunes ebb and flow and a boat must move with the tide and be thankful that it floats." Judith Allnatt0
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