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Loan please give me advice !!
HI
About 3 yeras ago, me and me wife, we took a loan for 20000 in natwest to build house in Poland. Last May we split up and she went back to Poland. She keept the house but i am still paying this loan. Please note this is a personal loan and its on her name, we have join bank account but there is no incom from her only my wage coming to account.
So every month i am paying about 340 for nothing. What should i do to not have a problems, is this my resposnibility to pay this or not
Thanks for all advices
About 3 yeras ago, me and me wife, we took a loan for 20000 in natwest to build house in Poland. Last May we split up and she went back to Poland. She keept the house but i am still paying this loan. Please note this is a personal loan and its on her name, we have join bank account but there is no incom from her only my wage coming to account.
So every month i am paying about 340 for nothing. What should i do to not have a problems, is this my resposnibility to pay this or not
Thanks for all advices
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HI
About 3 yeras ago, me and me wife, we took a loan for 20000 in natwest to build house in Poland. Last May we split up and she went back to Poland. She keept the house but i am still paying this loan. Please note this is a personal loan and its on her name, we have join bank account but there is no incom from her only my wage coming to account.
So every month i am paying about 340 for nothing. What should i do to not have a problems, is this my resposnibility to pay this or not
Thanks for all advices
Mate if your split up tell her to shove it, if its in her name you are not liable for any repayments.
If you don't pay the repayments they won't be chasing you for the money it will be her.
Also get yourself disassociated from her on your joint account.0 -
star-fire thank for quick answer,
so if i will cancel direct debit that should be enough?0 -
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its silly situation because its still a lot money to pay its kiling me

what happen if bank not find her or there will be no response from her.0 -
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I would tell her to take a run and jump"We want the finest wines available to humanity, we want them here, and we want them now!"0
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let them chase her..they loaned her the money,,sit back and enjoy the extra breathing space..It is nice to see the value of your house going up'' Why ?
Unless you are planning to sell up and not live anywhere, I can;t see the advantage.
If you are planning to upsize the new house will cost more.
If you are planning to downsize your new house will cost more than it should
If you are trying to buy your first house its almost impossible.0 -
I am sure they will try to contact her, and it is fully her problem. She will probably get a CCJ, but whether the bank can take the property is down to how good their lawyers are...0
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You need to close the joint account first otherwise it will all tar your credit file for years to come.0
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You may have trouble closing a joint account without her signature of agreement.0
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