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THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 2

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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    But how do you know if they are honest? I always get a gut feeling something isn't right.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Ted she is pretty. Vix you must be yourself and you will meet someone nice.
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  • vixarooni
    vixarooni Posts: 4,376 Forumite
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    Well, i think i come across too flirty sometimes. Theres a bloke who keeps messaging me on facebook, he's nigh on my brothers age so its a big no no, but i'm always too nice so i carry on talking to them. He keeps saying he's flirting, and its like.....UNCOOL DOOD. No one says they're flirting do they.

    Kit: You gotta pick the good boys, i haven't picked a bad one yet. Trouble is.. the good boys are the ones you end up being a mother to i swear it! But at your time of life you want a good guy to marry. That bloke seemed cool who gave you back your money!
  • puddings_2
    puddings_2 Posts: 1,889 Forumite
    well then trust your gut instinct... and life isnt a race so if you are unsure then either give it more time or just walk away

    what are your two hottest tips for me being cool with the ladies then Vicki?
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    No i have never met any one i could trust yet. I love Steve and Andy and Andy and Porge (he is my hero) but that is cos they are taken and i feel safe with them. Man people are a bit too selfish for me.
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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    My advice is to be yourself, be charming. We like people who make us laugh but don't laugh at yourself as when you do i want to hug you as i feel bad.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • puddings_2
    puddings_2 Posts: 1,889 Forumite
    vixarooni wrote: »
    ... at your time of life you want a good guy to marry. That bloke seemed cool who gave you back your money!
    haha Kit, Vicki's making it sound like youre an old biddy !!!
  • vixarooni
    vixarooni Posts: 4,376 Forumite
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    No i'm not pretty, and you wont convince me otherwise! I'm a good 4 out of 10, but its fine. I have other things to offer! Just that i need someone to look past the 4/10 which is the hard part!

    Kit: If you get that feeling about someone its often right!
  • beanielou
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    Right Im off to get organised for the morning.
    Have a good week all.
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  • puddings_2
    puddings_2 Posts: 1,889 Forumite
    puddings wrote: »
    Kit - all i can say, is that not all of us are lieing cheating barstools -
    ...and we are certainly not all selfish either!

    i hope youre not tarring me with the same brush as some of society's man rabble!!!!!
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