quick registry office wedding

Hello everyone!!

My OH and I are thinking of getting married and want to do it as quietly and quickly as possible.

Can anyone tell me how long a registry office wedding takes? Ideally we just want to say 'I do', sign and then scarper!! Not very romantic I know :wink: but thats what we would prefer.

Thanks in advance!! :happyhear

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  • I think its less than half an hour in the ceremony but you will need to meet the registrar first seperately, that doesnt last long either though
    I am not bossy I just have better ideas:p
  • Frogletina
    Frogletina Posts: 3,914 Forumite
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    It's what I did

    I had been living with my partner for a while and I just wanted to be married - having a wedding was not the important thing to me

    It was a very simple and intimate occasion
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  • I'm pretty sure the basic registry office ceremony takes 15mn.
    However you should check with your local council what the wording and timings are exactly.
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  • Dekazer
    Dekazer Posts: 452 Forumite
    You could try your Local Authority website - ours has details of all the ceremonies they provide and gives an indication of timings etc.

    As an example, Ealing Council ceremonies guide can be viewed online at http://www2.ealing.gov.uk/ealing3/export/sites/ealingweb/services/community/births_deaths_marriages/marriages/_marriage_docs/Ealing_Ceremonies_Guide.pdf

    This guide suggests that the whole ceremony, including the preliminary discussions with the Registrar, will last about 20 minutes.
  • ellay864
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    About 20 mins seems right based on the very simple registry office wedding I went to last year. That was just the basics, no readings, no extras
  • shellsuit
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    Ring your local reg office and make an appointment to give notice and choose a date (while your on the phone to them, you could ask about what date you want).

    Turn up on said date.

    Say your vows. (basic vows about 10 minutes)

    Bingo! :)
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