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lots of debt any ideas?

I have the following debts:
Credit card 2751 APR 15.5
Personal Loan 3042 APR 15.5
Graduate Loan 1230 APR 6.5
Over draft 400
overpayment from work 596

I can't switch to cheaper APR as i've a bad credit rating. I've requested a statement of all bank charges from LloysTSB to reclaim bank charges. If they ask me to close my accounts will I have to pay back all I owe straight away? I'm scared I won't be able to!

Advice please?

I need to make extra money and pay off my debts before August if I can as i'm getting married. My fiance doesn't know how bad my debts are although he knows I have some debt. Should I tell him? The only thing we ever argue about is money!

J:mad:
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  • yung
    yung Posts: 700 Forumite
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    Welcome to the forum, there is lots of helps and advices form peoples in the same situation as yourself however if you post an S.O.A we will be able to help you, good luck. meawhile have look at this site for advice about claiming your bank charges.
    http://www.consumeractiongroup.co.uk/forum/
    Yung
    Early Retiree debt & stress free. and Joined the SKI club:j

  • climbgirl
    climbgirl Posts: 1,504 Forumite
    Yung is right, we can't really offer advice without seeing a full list of your incomings, your outgoings (all of them!) as well as the debts listed above. Please post a full SOA if you can and we can offer advice from there.
  • climbgirl
    climbgirl Posts: 1,504 Forumite
    Also, if jessica king is your actual name you might want to make your username a bit more anonymous!
  • jak
    jak Posts: 2,027 Forumite
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    What's an SOA? Sorry to be thick!
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  • Storm
    Storm Posts: 1,749 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Hi and welcome:hello:

    As Yung says, you need to post a SoA first so we can see if there's any savings you can make & get a good idea of your situation - see SouthernScousers sticky at the top of the board.

    As for telling your fiance - obviously only you know what your relationship is really like, but at the least (as he already knows you have some debts) perhaps you can say that you're going to be very frugal for a while as you want to clear everything before the wedding - he'll more than likely support you in this as it will mean you can start your married life with a clean financial slate.

    Good luck

    Storm
    Total Debt 13th Sept 2006 (exc student loan): £6240.06 :eek:
    O/D 1 [strike]£1250 [/strike]O/D 2 [strike]£100[/strike] Next a/c [strike]£313.55[/strike]@ 26.49% Mum [strike]£130[/strike] HSBC [strike]£4446.51[/strike]@15.75%[STRIKE]M&S £580.15@ 4.9%[/STRIKE]
    Total Debt 30th April 2008: £0 100% paid off!

    PROUD TO [STRIKE]BE DEALING [/STRIKE] HAVE DEALT WITH MY DEBT ;)
  • climbgirl
    climbgirl Posts: 1,504 Forumite
    It stands for Statement of Affairs. All your incomings (everything you earn) and all your outgoings (every you spend. And I mean EVEYRTHING - rent, bills, food, birthyda presents, beer, the lot!), and your debts - how much you owe, to whom, what the limits are and the APRs.

    Yung posted a link which outlines it in more detail.
  • climbgirl
    climbgirl Posts: 1,504 Forumite
    Sorry no, the link from Yung was about bank charges!

    Read this thread about posting an SOA - http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=107280
  • jak
    jak Posts: 2,027 Forumite
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    Monthly Incomings:

    My salary - 1146
    Partners salary - £600

    Total - 1746

    Monthly Outgoings:

    Mortgage/Rent - 330
    Council Tax - £72
    Electric - £40
    TV License - £10.99
    Phone - 20
    Food - 60
    Bus- 40
    Personal laon- 78
    Graduate loan- 82
    Credit card- £300 (try not to pay minimum)
    Beer- 20
    Overpayment- 119.2 pcm (begins 1st Jan. 07)

    £1172.19 Outgoings

    Feel a bit silly now as can put more on credit card than I have been.
    Will put on £700 pcm to trry and clear it. This is based on earnings beginning next month(first pay day end Dec) as have a new job but this month i'll be only earning approx. £800 in total.
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  • jak
    jak Posts: 2,027 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    how do you change your user name?
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  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Monthly Incomings:

    My salary - 1146
    Partners salary - £600

    Total - 1746

    Monthly Outgoings:

    Mortgage/Rent - 330
    Council Tax - £72
    Electric - £40
    ( no gas?)
    TV License - £10.99
    Phone - 20 ( is this all? no mobiles? )
    Food - 60 ( a month, between you- thats really low, are you sure?)
    Bus- 40
    Personal laon- 78 APR
    Graduate loan- 82 APR
    Credit card- £300 (try not to pay minimum)
    Beer- 20
    Overpayment- 119.2 pcm (begins 1st Jan. 07)

    £1172.19 Outgoings

    Do you have all that money "spare"

    theres nothing for clothes, haircuts ,gifts anything like that?

    I suggest you look at martins budget planner at the top of the page for a full breakdown of where it all goes :)
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
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