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THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs ....... and friends

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  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    well I am not a trained counsellor, and as I work with her all the time, well 3 days a week, I can't switch off, like counsellors do. I think they learn how to compartmentalise. She is 28 but a very young 28, the way she talks you would think she was fresh out of school. So I told her that. And said she needs to learn to tolerate other people and their little "quirks". I said this morning how I didn't like a woman we work with and she said you can't say that, why don't you like her... etc, etc. And that is what I said to her this afternoon. She told me I can't say I don't like this woman,but she expects me too. The same way people expect her to take a job, but she doesn't, as her words "I don't do jokes, I don't have a sense of humour like that".
  • vixarooni
    vixarooni Posts: 4,376 Forumite
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    Maybe shes a bit aspergic? I've blaters made that word up. Aspergers...that sorta thing.
  • boultdj
    boultdj Posts: 5,336 Forumite
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    puddings wrote: »
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    vixarooni wrote: »
    why do some people give you that butterflys in the stomach feeling? Its so strange isnt it, how your body reacts to people!
    Hubba Hubba!!! Yes to the butterflys espically for Paul Darrow when he's dressed up as Avon, sorry not been round much, just keep falling asleep when I sit down.
    £71.93/ £180.00
  • Aesop
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    vixarooni wrote: »
    Maybe shes a bit aspergic? I've blaters made that word up. Aspergers...that sorta thing.

    no, she's not. We have got someone else working with us who has Aspergers and if you know the signs of Aspergers, then you know she has it.

    no, this woman is very childish for her age. She told me today she wants to be 3 years old again. She doesn't have a sense of humour. It has caused problems before where she didn't take something said to her as humorous, she got very upset and things got a bit out of hand.
  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Hi again everyone - been watching TV - trying to get into that new series 'Outcasts' - not quite sure about it yet - then watched some other rubbish - I'm tucked up in bed now with my laptop

    You seem to have your work cut out with that lady at work Aesop - hope you can deal with her OK - but you do sound knackered so take care of yourself too :A

    All this talk of the meeting at Easter - OOoo it's getting exciting now, they've got their tickets booked so it's all set now :j :j Just got to set a date, time and place for Edinburgh to meet up with Beanie and George hopefully, and see what Miche and Frit are doing. There's no-one else up that area are they? Newcastle? Edinburgh?
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • Aesop
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    yes, I need to stop trying to be everything for everyone. I need some me-time... all by myself.

    Poor DS fell asleep on the floor today playing with his bricks -he was shattered too. hard 2 days at nursery... :rotfl:
  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Aesop wrote: »
    yes, I need to stop trying to be everything for everyone. I need some me-time... all by myself.

    Poor DS fell asleep on the floor today playing with his bricks -he was shattered too. hard 2 days at nursery... :rotfl:

    Ah Bless 'im - they really do have a hard life at that age don't they :rotfl: :rotfl:

    You are just like me Aesop, always helping out others, always saying 'I'll do that', always putting others first ........ and yourself last - you'd think we'd learn as we get older, but, believe me, we don't!!! :eek:
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • savingwannabe
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    Evening all. Hello i made it through the day. Am just connecting up my phone as i should be able to cope with dad today. It is behind the telly and can't reach eeek.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • vixarooni
    vixarooni Posts: 4,376 Forumite
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    Good evening all! I'm watching the football, tad cold and in need of a wee!

    Thats all i have to say :p ha
  • Mr_3Dogs
    Mr_3Dogs Posts: 448 Forumite
    Hello folks, the boss has asked me to let you all know that she will be on about 9.30ish. She has been with Mam most of the day and is picking her brother up from the station at 8.30 . She hasnt been near her computor all day and will be getting withdrawl symptons (she hasnt gone cold turkey for that long before ). May talk later if I dont fall asleep.
    Ha'way the Lads - SAFC
    Enjoying life to the full
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