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THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs ....... and friends

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  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    How much is the summons bit then A?

    £125 and then I owed one month council tax £150. Have paid that from DH's account, but I will pay the £125.
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    I am, have had trouble with internet, DH had access upstairs, but I couldn't log in.
  • Aesop
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    puddings wrote: »
    aesop - £30 profit on a sunday, well done :-)

    ps i wont be having my nails done or face sandblasted or body covered in mud or any of that nonsense, thankyou very much!
    back later, Tedina x

    thank you! quite chuffed with myself.

    good luck with the walk, hope you don't get too damp.
  • beanielou
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    Im here.
    Having problems with my internet connection.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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  • beanielou
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    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Also, totally unrelated, I am going off Muller lights I think.
    I need to go back on them quick.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Aesop
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    savingwannabe wrote: »
    How is she coping Aesop it must be so difficult.

    she's not. And her Mum isn't helping. She is blaming it on the tablets she took while she was pregnant, the things that are recommended by the Drs for a healthy pregnancy. She took them with her first son, I took them, thousands of women take them. But her Mum is a hard woman. I have spoken to her, she reckons that her 4 kids were all potty trained by 6 months... who knows.

    Her husband refuses to talk about it, she wants to talk about it and he says there is nothing to talk about. She is taking a year off work as she is entitled to it, but is already talking about going on the sick when that finishes.

    I can't spend more time with her, but she needs someone sensible to talk to her and I can't do it when both our kids are around.
  • Aesop
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    beanielou wrote: »
    Also, totally unrelated, I am going off Muller lights I think.
    I need to go back on them quick.

    I get like that, go completely off a certain type of yoghurt. Good luck at getting back on them quickly.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,725 Ambassador
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    Well done on youe money making A.
    Its very early days for your friend to talk about going sick when her year is up.
    MIght her GP be able to arrange for her to talk to someone?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • savingwannabe
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    Marru i dont even know where my mobile is. I asked that noone rang me this weekend as i wouldn't be able to cope with parents being here. It is exhausting. I hope she is ok.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    I agree she needs counselling. This happened to someone i knew and she split up with her husband as they couldn't cope with it.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
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