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THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs ....... and friends

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  • puddings_2
    puddings_2 Posts: 1,889 Forumite
    Goodnight Kit
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    puds i am getting really [EMAIL="P@@@@ed"]P@@@@ed[/EMAIL] off with real life friends telling me to be careful on the net. What do you think?
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    I am going to bed. Puds if you have time can you help with my stupid question. Thank you, kit.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • puddings_2
    puddings_2 Posts: 1,889 Forumite
    well, you do need to be streetwise, but it shouldnt stop you from doing anything that you want to do.... there's people that you know in the real world - such as steve and andy and 3dogs etc , so obviously no problem there... but for others (including people like me) that youve never met and dont really know for sure for sure who they really are, then i'd suggest that you need to be a little more careful.... for example... in summer when youre touring the country meeting all these folk like me that you dont know, then if you're on your own I'd suggest meeting them for the first time somewhere public - or at the very least making sure that somebody somewhere knows exactly where you are and who youre meeting with, and let them know afterwards when youre finished your meeting.
    I dont want to make you paranoid im sure theres no need for that,and certainly dont want to spoil any of your plans, but we just want to make sure that you're safe and ok all the time. Trusting is a wonderful personality trait, just dont give anyone the chance to take advantage of that.
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Dude i trust you completely and Vix too. I am just cross all my friends treat me as if i am 10 years old. Saw you on Sim's thread, bless you, good night.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • puddings_2
    puddings_2 Posts: 1,889 Forumite
    maybe it's your innocence!

    i dont know what to say without scaring you. i think you just need to acknowledge that, on the internet, it is possible for a good liar to pretend to be somebody that they're not.
    out of a hundred thousand forum users there might be one or two or a lot like that , or there might be none at all, but whatever number the possibilty is still there so you just need to be streetwise and acknowledge it.
  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Good advice Puds and with that, I'm off to bed - I don't know where the last hour has gone to really - I went of to report in with my January NSD's and set my target for February and ............... there it went .... one hour later, I'm back but signing off

    Night Night guys - sleep well - sweet dreams all :D:D
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • puddings_2
    puddings_2 Posts: 1,889 Forumite
    me too im off
    goodnight all x
  • vixarooni
    vixarooni Posts: 4,376 Forumite
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    Had a fab night! There's a bloke at work called Tom the totty, totally have a crush on him and he was in the club! My friend spotted him but he was wearing lacrosse gear? Looked awful, but his face is hot!

    My friends sister is sitting in the back of an ambulance wasting time. She says she has chest pains but I think it's interjection.

    Off to go on chat roulette. Maybe not! The sister is going to hospital. Jeez
  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Morning all - off out soon to help at another slimming class - so will be back after lunch-time

    Hope everyone has a good day today and Vix doesn't have a hangover :o
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
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