Silly Idea?

podperson

Hi all,

I could really do with a second opinion on this. Am sending cards out to OHs brothers/wives/kids this weekend. They don't swop presents as they aren't especially close - they get on fine when they see each other they just don't see each other very often and we live 200 miles away. I had been thinking that I would put some of those Thorntons christmas chocolate lollies in the cards for them as I always feel a little bad we don't get them anything and I know OH does as well and was thinking it was a good idea until yesterday when I started having doubts.
Now I'm just worrying that they might think it's a bit silly and childish and just emphasise the fact that we haven't got them a 'proper' present. If we were seeing them I would usually get them a big box of choccies but seems a bit silly to send through to post to them and I know they won't send us anything.
So if you got that in a card would you appreciate it or just think it was silly?

THE-WIFE_3

Not silly at all, podperson, it's the thought that counts! If they don't appreciate you taking the time to do something a little different then they ain't worth worrying about. Send them and feel good about yourself.

shoopi

I think it's a really nice idea and I would definitely be pleased if I received one!

midnightraven3

a chocolate lolly, through the post??

hmmmmmm

who on earth would think thats a bad idea??:D

i think it would make most people smile

and no, i dont think it says i didnt get you a proper prezzie

it says, we are far apart, but thought of you inspite of u s not exchanging gifts

madmoys

Just a thought, won't they cost a bit more to post as it'll make the envelope deeper?

podperson

Aww, thanks all, feeling a bit better now You know when you just have those days where you start doubting everything you do? *sighs*
Madmoys, think would have to take them to the post office as think the weight would probably be over as well - think they would be less than impressed if they had to go to the sorting office and pay to get their cards!

*Louise*

Tbh - it's little touches like that that would make me smile

claret1980

It's a nice idea, but is there a chance that you could be emphasising the fact the they didn't get you anything?

RachyD_3

It's a lovely idea, just get the weight checked at the PO

Ladyhawk

I think it is a really nice idea. I think the fact that they don't give presents emphsises the fact that you don't exchage gifts!! I wouldn't worry about it.

I often pop lottery tickets or scratch cards in cards as a little extra something and people are always very chuffed with them.

ailuro2

tbh I'd stick with the status quo - Christmas is about reminding those you love that you care for them, not about feeling guilty because you didn't send them a lavish present.

We give to family if we see them, if not then they get a card and our best wishes.

They might see it as you having a dig at them for not giving presents, or send you something bigger which you'd then feel obliged to match next year.

Keep it as it is.;)

Merry Christmas, btw