We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Morgage in both names-Spouse refuses to help pay it

My spouse and I took out a mortgage almost ten years ago. We both work and I make the payments from my income. She has never helped make one payment. She officially stated she will never help me pay it. I am considering taking her to small claims court or doing something in a legal manner without going through a divorce, even though I have considered it. I admit however, I would enjoy the satisfaction of getting a court order first directing her pay up since the loan is in her name as well.

Can I actually get the law to force her to pay up? If yes, is it worth it?

Thanks!

Comments

  • getmore4less
    getmore4less Posts: 46,882 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper I've helped Parliament
    Forget it.

    How does the rest of your different incomes get spread out?
  • benjo
    benjo Posts: 482 Forumite
    Does she contribute financially or otherwise?

    I pay the mortgage from my account, my other half hasnt 'helped' me to make a single payment......... but, he does pay the council tax, gas/elec, water rates and all the shopping from his account and I havent 'helped' him to make a single payment.

    If I demand he pays half the mortgage I suspect he will demand I pay half towards the baked beans.:eek:
  • Yours sound like a happy marriage!!!
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351.7K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.4K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454K Spending & Discounts
  • 244.7K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.1K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.3K Life & Family
  • 258.4K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.