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The Bankrupt Inn - Part 9

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  • IF
    IF Posts: 34,349 Forumite
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    iquit wrote: »
    I joined about 20 months ago and everyone was so helpful, kind, understanding and above all caring. When BR got to be too much I curled up in a ball and didn't communicate with anyone, but there are good people from here who dropped me a line just to make sure I was ok. I didn't answer but it gave me the impetus to pull myself together and start again. I touched base on the forum after AD and again got a welcoming response. I'm not on everyday but when I am I've seen unpleasant and rather personal attacks, so I understand people wanting some time out. It is unfortunate but as many of us know there are so many other stresses in life that some times this kind of behaviour can be the straw that breaks the camel's back. I would just like everyone who is on a break at the moment to know that there are those of us with only 1 identity on the forum with genuine needs who really appreciated having them around. When you get back guys, drinks are on me
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    Thanks iquit, that's how I feel too and you have written so much better than I could x

    Think I join you for a drink MSE are going to close the Troll thread for an experiment after lunch and I just don't understand why:(
    "If wishes were horses, then beggars would ride"
  • Sunnylooloo
    Sunnylooloo Posts: 4,295 Forumite
    Don't worry If I will just got and start a diary on the DFW board it seems anything goes there.............

    Mad!

    I am going to write to Martin about this I am so angry!
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  • Falze
    Falze Posts: 872 Forumite
    I'm sorry If, i know how much the troll thread meant to you.
    I'm no expert, but i'll give you my opinion, my support and my experience. Its all i have.


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  • iquit
    iquit Posts: 1,939 Forumite
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    I logged on today for a
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    but have come away feeling
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  • Falze
    Falze Posts: 872 Forumite
    iquit wrote: »
    I logged on today for a
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    but have come away feeling
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    Turn that frown upside down IQ. It'll be OK.
    I'm no expert, but i'll give you my opinion, my support and my experience. Its all i have.


    Delcared BR 28th May'10 - Married 30th April'11 - Auto Discharged 28th May'11 - Life Changing
  • Sunnylooloo
    Sunnylooloo Posts: 4,295 Forumite
    Right I'm off peeps

    catch you tomorrow for hanger No 2............

    Don't let the idiots win no matter how angry you feel....... just take a deep breath....... that is what I am doing

    Have a good evening

    xx
    The worst cliques are those which consist of one man ~ George Bernard Shaw
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  • Falze
    Falze Posts: 872 Forumite
    Coke ready first thing for you, with the paracetamol
    I'm no expert, but i'll give you my opinion, my support and my experience. Its all i have.


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  • IF
    IF Posts: 34,349 Forumite
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    Right I'm off peeps

    catch you tomorrow for hanger No 2............

    Don't let the idiots win no matter how angry you feel....... just take a deep breath....... that is what I am doing

    Have a good evening

    xx

    :rotfl:Have a nice time Loo :beer:

    Deep breath taken:D
    "If wishes were horses, then beggars would ride"
  • ok, as a relative newbie poster on BR forum, I have not the faintest idea whats going on, except that some folks who were nice to me when I started posting, are now leaving as they have been upset - by who or for what reason I don't know, and frankly, its not any of my business.

    HOWEVER - it will be a shame if people don't get the support they need because of some bad feeling. An example would be that I was told by someone from the OR office to sign over vol repo on my house, and not to worry about the shortfall - which from the info on here would have been TOTALLY the wrong thing to do, then who knows what kind of a mess I'd have been in.

    I'm very sad if others are sad...we should be able to support each other
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  • IF
    IF Posts: 34,349 Forumite
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    Good evening all x

    Is it too early for happy hour!! :D


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    "If wishes were horses, then beggars would ride"
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