The Bankrupt Inn - Part 9

philnicandamy

Sunnylooloo wrote: »

Maybe i am too old for cher..........

Hmm same here...just dont like the girl

lilibet1

i like a bit of rap and shes young and she has a ballsy personality, maybe im after what left me years ago!! Only joking im happy as i am x

lilibet1

confused.. im getting there its just taking a while. I even have to think about which loo roll or washing liquid i use and its hard sometimes x

confused76

lilibet1 wrote: »

confused.. im getting there its just taking a while. I even have to think about which loo roll or washing liquid i use and its hard sometimes x

i know...you have to retrain yourself! we had a very limited Christmas last year, explained we couldn't do presents (except for the kids) kept it simple, everyone understood. still had a lovely time...you have to consciously not get sucked in to the spend spend spend culture! you'll get there, sounds like you are x

philnicandamy

I agree lill...one thing I came away with after bankruptcy? a better person & a greater outlook on life

its hard BUT will get better and as confuzzled said your by the sounds of it well on track!

lilibet1

yes i am confused its taking a while to realise that if i only have 8.98 in my purse then thats all i have! x

Sunnylooloo

Ah lili at least you can come here and put your feet up and have a chat!!

as for cher - yep it's my age

xx

lilibet1

i can give you all an example and i hope you understand. My hubby wanted to go to Manchester today for a day out at the trafford centre, we wouldnt have gone mad and it would have all been on him as i have no money at all til monday, but i said no this is wrong and we drove to hereford and walked the dogs. I know my hubby and son would have loved the shops but im different now. When you have to eek out every last penny then things are different. Dont get me wrong im ok but look at things in a different way. Does that make sense???

x

lilibet1

sunnyloo, cher is a youngster and full of life. Yes were both older and wiser!! x x xx

philnicandamy

lilibet1 wrote: »

i can give you all an example and i hope you understand. My hubby wanted to go to Manchester today for a day out at the trafford centre, we wouldnt have gone mad and it would have all been on him as i have no money at all til monday, but i said no this is wrong and we drove to hereford and walked the dogs. I know my hubby and son would have loved the shops but im different now. When you have to eek out every last penny then things are different. Dont get me wrong im ok but look at things in a different way. Does that make sense???

x

makes perfect sense