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OK I admit i need help

tired_mum · 2010-09-21 13:10:17

Have just had words with HSBC re my CC and have managed to go to £100 with no interest for 6 months and i have also managed to stop interest on my barclaycard now my OH doesnt know the extent of our finances when i say we havent any money he says why i earn a good wage need to deal with this and deal with it now our kids…

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RAS Posts: 36,206 Forumite

21 September 2010 at 7:26PM

tired_mum wrote: »

OH doesnt know the extent of the debt he has already baled me out once and i feel it may be the end of our marriage if i asked again:o

Well he has been living in cloud cuckoo land has he not. How far does he really seriously think the sole income goes?

he is as much responsible by deciding to be ignorant and to abandon his financial responsibilities as you are for not stopping the spending.

If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing

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