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Parents! Who'd have em...

I was down visiting my mum this week and she confided in me that she has some financial issues, namely credit cards! She was so upset about it all and I can see why with the interest rates. I really need some advice on how best to help her out, possibly using some of my empty credit cards if it will help.

She has about £13,000 spread across 4/5 credit cards. The interest payments on them per month are like £80 each!!!!!! :mad:

She works for the prison service and has a very modest wage which sees her taking home around £1000 net each month. Her minimum payments alone are around £358. I will post some more details relating to interest rates, credit limits etc when I get them off her later. I just wanted to vent really at the moment...

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  • Hannah_10
    Hannah_10 Posts: 1,774 Forumite
    Vent away, you're in Ok company!

    When the venty bit is over though, can you get her to do a SOA please and we'll have a good hard look at it. There's a sticky at the top of this board about SOA's with everything she'd need to know.
    I refuse to be afraid of the big bad wolf, spiders, or debt collection agencies; one of them's not real and the other two are powerless without my fear.
    (Ok, one of them is powerless, spiders can be nasty.)


    As of the last count I have cleared
    [STRIKE]23.16%[/STRIKE] 22.49% of my debt. :(
  • podperson
    podperson Posts: 3,125 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 1,000 Posts
    As Hannah says she needs to get her budget written down and maybe you can go through it with her and see if there seems to be any problems, for example if she is living beyond her means which might be why she has got stuck in the credit card cycle. Make sure you get this side of it sorted out before helping her out by taking on any of her debt - if there is an underlying problem she may just end up borrowing again and you will both be stuck with debts you struggle to pay off.
  • Devo
    Devo Posts: 236 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    Just had a rather harrowing phone conversation with mum to get to the bottom of exactly what she owes :mad: The breakdown seems to be:

    Next - £986 @ 26.9% APR
    Min payment £89
    Credit limit £3600
    MBNA - £4153 @ 23.3%
    Min payment £79
    Credit limit £4400
    Barclaycard Visa - £3851 @ 24.9% APR
    Min payment £86
    Credit limit £3950
    Barclaycard mastercard - £2893 @ 23.9% APR
    Min payment £59
    Credit limit £2900
    Tesco - £2031 @ 20%
    Min payment £43
    Credit limit £2125
    Total = £13,914

    Now, I haven't even broached the subject of SOA yet so please bare with me here. Just trying to figure it all out first as I calculate her monthly interest costs to be over £300! :eek:
  • Best of luck helping her get these sorted. Maybe have her start looking for 0% transfers? She could save loads on intrest.
    Mortgage free by 30:eek:: £28,000/£100,000
    :DDebt free as of 1 October, 2010:D
    Taking my frugal life on the road!
  • NorthernLas
    NorthernLas Posts: 1,271 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    edited 11 September 2010 at 11:28PM
    You might want to ask whether she has an overdraft as she might not see that as debt.

    Also is she up to date with council tax, utilities and TV licence?

    Any idea how long these debts have been growing and what she has spent the money on?
  • isy1011
    isy1011 Posts: 513 Forumite
    Now she has you to prevent a similar reoccurence she needs to balance transfer onto 0% and then than money can start to reduce balances.
    Egg April 10 £6600 Jan £4678 now £0
    Santander Jan £3414 April £3338
    Virgin April£2643 Aug £3155 April £7109
    Barclaycard Oct £1476 April £1287
    So far paid off 17% of c.c. debt:T
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