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Hi guys

I've completed the budget brain spreadsheet so we can try and get a grip on our finances - which are all over the place AGAIN! Have had some family stuff going on over the last 2 years and ended up having to take out 0% credit cards to help out. We'd cleared all our cards and were on track to start saving and OPing mortgage - so basically back to square one now with about £15 debt on cards between me and hubby.

Background - hubby working full time & also just started second job as a taxi driver part time - bringing in an extra £500 per month - which explains high insurance & petrol costs. I'm working part time for about £500 per month - but payment is sparodic and irregular - have to chase up employer - small community project. My job is contract work and self employed and I always end up doing more hours. 3 kids - who are all lunches.

We don't think we are overly exravagent - but never have any money left and have nothing in savings at all. Don't buy DVDs, books or computer games, don't drink or smoke or eeat out THAT much - although I do needd to cut down on take aways...(once or twice a week at about £10-12 time for all of us).

I have tried spending diary before but never keep up with it! I know I need to be the main driver of our financial situation - hubby wants me to take charge and start managing our money better - so any help really gratefully received!

SOA to follow - the cards are all in his name, except 1, so I will get him to check total amounts and post those tomorrow

Thanks in advance for any replies and advice...

Comments

  • Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet
    Monthly Income Details
    Income from Employment (after tax). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2,173.00
    Income from Self Employment (before tax). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 541.67
    State Pension . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Private Pension / Annuity Payout. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Benefits (Inc. Child Benefit/Tax Credits & Income Support). . . . . . . . . . . 204.10
    Income From Savings & Investments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Gifts From Family / Friends . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    partners income . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 512.00
    Monthly Expense Details
    In Your Home
    Mobile Phone(s) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50.00
    TV Licence. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12.37
    Internet. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10.00
    Home Phone. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20.00
    Cleaning Products/Cleaner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Garden Maintenance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Household Maintenance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Oil . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Electricity . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50.00
    Gas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31.00
    Water . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47.43
    Council Tax . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 98.00
    Overdraft Cost. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Bank Account Fee. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Home Insurance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22.39
    Mortgage/Rent . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 705.04
    Plumbing/Boiler Cover . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Mortgage Life Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Mortgage Payment Protection . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Life Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23.00
    Food and Household Shopping . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 350.00
    Drinks for Home . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Motoring & Public Transport
    Petrol/Diesel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 650.00
    Parking . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10.00
    Car Tax . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30.00
    Car Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 176.00
    Car Maintenance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50.00
    Rail/Bus/Taxi . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Breakdown Cover . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2.08
    car insurance 2 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45.00
    Debt Repayments
    Credit Card Repayments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Hire Purchase Repayments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Personal Loan Repayments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Car Loan Repayments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Committee . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 200.00
    CC- rbs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 99.00
    CC-Satander . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 85.00
    CC-tesco. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 55.00
    CC-barclaycard. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 127.38
    egg mine. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 55.00
    Savings & Investments
    Pension Payments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Buying Shares . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Investments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Mini Cash ISAs. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Lump Sum Saving . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Regular Saving. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Family
    Pet Food. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    School Trips. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    School Meals. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50.00
    Pocket Money. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Nappies/Baby Extras . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Laundry/Dry Cleaning. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Children's Travel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Baby Sitting. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Childcare/Play Groups . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 100.00
    Pet Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Travel Insurance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Entertainment
    Satellite/Digital TV. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Family Days Out . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30.00
    Cinema/Theatre Trips. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Books/Music/Films/Computers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Big Days Out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Shopping for Fun. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 80.00
    Pet Costs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Hobbies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    IT/Computing (eg Anti-virus etc). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    DVD Rental. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Drinking Out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Eating Out. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 86.67
    Clothes, Health & Beauty
    Complimentary Therapies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Optical Bills . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Haircuts. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Dentistry . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Beauty Treatments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Healthcare Cashplans. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 68.00
    Dental Insurance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Private Medical Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Fitness/Sports/Gym. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Work Clothes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    New Children's Clothes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40.00
    New Clothes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40.00
    Education & Courses
    University Tuition Fees . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    School Fees . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Your Courses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Big One Offs
    Funeral Expenses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Wedding Expenses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Sofa/Kitchen/TV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Birthdays . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20.00
    Winter Holiday. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Summer Holiday. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Christmas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Odds & Sods
    Newspapers & Magazines. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5.00
    Tax & NI Provisions (self-employed only). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17.00
    Regular Charity Donations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Meals at work . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26.00
    Smokes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00
    Coffees/Sandwiches/Snacks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 0.00

    Total monthly income. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3,430.77

    Total monthly expenses. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3,566.36
  • ooops! copied and pasted the SOA - is there another way of putting it up so its clearer and shorter?
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  • Hi,

    standouts: £80 on clothes
    £26 meals at work (take sandwiches)
    £68 Healthcare cashplans (what's wrong with the NHS)
    £86 eating out. Stop this until the debt is paid back
    £80 shopping for fun. Stop this until the debt is paid back
    Groceries - try to reduce, loads of advice on old school board
    Taxi driving - petrol and insurance is high - are you sure this is profitable after tax?

    If you stopped all that and knocked £80 of the groceries you'd be almost £500 a month better off. Other than that I think you need to find ways of increasing your hours or taking on more work.

    Good luck
    I'm a qualified accountant but please make sure you get expert advice as any opinion is made in a private capacity.
    "A goal without a plan is just a wish" Antoine de Saint-Exupery

    Mortgage overpay 2012: £10,815; 2013: £27,562
    Mortgage start £264k, now £232k
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