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Overnight Stays

Hi,

quick question..

I have a court order in place to see my son,..

I have him every other weekend on an overnight stay (pic up sat 10:30am hand him back sun eve 5pm)

I also have him for an extra night in half terms and a weeks holiday in sumer holidays.

I make this out to be roughly 35nights (off top of my head).

Will this create any reduced payment to CSA???

Thanks in advance

Leo

Comments

  • You would have to have your son 52 nights of the year to qualify for a reduction.
  • My kids stay 74 nights a year (by Court Order) . . so I shouild have a 1/7th reduction.

    But my ex-wife is now saying they don't . . and they not only say they have to accept what SHE says, but they also won't accept any evidence from ME to prove the truth !

    My eldest daughter is 18 in 2 weeks, and I've offered to send them her sworn Affidavit confirming it . . but they currently refuse to accept ANY evidence from me! (My case is already being dealt with by the CSA Complaints Resolution Team)

    I spoke to the ICE today, and they said to try writing and complain to the Chief Executive, which I have done. But apparently if they still refuse any evidence I have to Appeal, which of course means it goes to a Tribunal which means a 12 month wait for a hearing !

    Anyone else have a similar problem?
  • speedster
    speedster Posts: 1,300 Forumite
    yep.

    had exactly the same myself. :mad:

    i had totally concrete proof too, which they chose to completely ignore. letter from ex to my solicitor, court order, transcripts of texts, etc, etc.

    i worked out what my maintainance SHOULD have been and paid that amount via a SO. i did chuckle when they phoned and threatened me with the dreaded DEO... they always work on SE. :p
    NEVER ARGUE WITH AN IDIOT. THEY'LL DRAG YOU DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL AND BEAT YOU WITH EXPERIENCE.

    and, please. only thank when appropriate. not to boost idiots egos.
  • wow so i have this to come.

    speedster so can they not take other actions in getting there supposed money the thieving scumbags!!
  • If you're Self Employed they obviously can't get a Deduction of Earnings Order speedster, but if you refuse to pay what is ordered, you will build up Arrears.

    That means they'll start Enforcement Proceedings - you'll have a Liability Order, CCJ, then they'll get a 3rd Party Debt Order which means they'll freeze all your bank accounts and take money . . they'll send bailiffs round, and put a Charge on your house !

    If you still refuse to pay they can seize your passport and driving license !

    These draconian powers are all very well if people are GENUINELY refusing to pay . . . but it's ABSURD that they start using them when they won't sort out father's assessments properly - like just believing the mother's lies and refusing to accept proper evidence for overnight stays.
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