thanks martin

elantan

i may have just noticed this i'm not sure ..but i would love to say thanks again to martin for mentioning that this board is for help and not for judging people too much of this has been going on recently ...persoanlly speaking i have been avoiding this board due to this problem ....we can only help each other if we work together....judging people helps no-one....thanks again martin

kathfisch

Absolutely agree, many thanks to Martin! :T

Now come back everyone and we'll drown out the not-so-nice voices

Annie_Fanny

Gosh - that's a shame this has happened. The board used to be so friendly.

kathfisch

Annie_Fanny wrote:

The board used to be so friendly.

It still is!!! I think we just had a few trolls who succeeded in making newbies feel quite miserable :mad: I think also as the whole site grows there are many people attracted by other parts (bargains etc) who find their way to dfw without really understanding what its about and can be very insensitive (intentionally or not who knows ).

lynzpower

i havent really been around too muc recently due to PC probs and so forth, Im sorry this has been going on. but in saying that in fits and starts, sometimes we get a few bad apples, then we recover and we carry on doing what we are doing. Like any happy family theres gonna be squabbles from time to time.

Broken_hearted

No-one can destroy this board , there are too many of us who stand together to support eachother.

rog2

elantan wrote:

i may have just noticed this i'm not sure ..but i would love to say thanks again to martin for mentioning that this board is for help and not for judging people too much of this has been going on recently ...persoanlly speaking i have been avoiding this board due to this problem ....we can only help each other if we work together....judging people helps no-one....thanks again martin

I agree - I have avoided posting on several threads after being aggressively put down. No one pretends to be perfect with their advice, which is exactly why this is a forum for sharing ideas and experience. We don't need bullies.

postingalwaysposting

Broken_hearted wrote:

No-one can destroy this board , there are too many of us who stand together to support eachother.

:T well said broken hearted, why should we allow the very small minority to spoil it for those who are and will become debt free, using the suport and encouragement of this board/site

frenchconnection200

Well said everyone!!

newleaf

Ah, there you are elantan! I was just thinking I hadn't seen you around for a while. Welcome back

elantan

thanks new leaf was feeling kinda stressed about a few things and when i came on here looking for a bit of respite i just wanted to scream at some of the things being written so basically stayed away ..how are you doing?