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Which way is best?

Trying to work out which is best for me and hubby.......His debts come to approx £15k alone, joint debts are approximately £10k and debts in my own name are less than £2k! We cant decide whether it would be best to both go BR....or just hubby and then I try to stick to paying the debts left behind? that way one of us is still solvent?

Any feedback greatly appreciated
Getting back on the Wagon after falling with a thump! :o
Total Debt 31/11/13 = £20,341.05
1 debt v's 100 days 14 £24/£300

SPC #1108 Challenge 6 £63.76

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  • dojoman
    dojoman Posts: 12,027 Forumite
    Please contact one of the charities below, they will offer free and impartial advice.

    https://www.nationaldebtline.co.uk/
    https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/
    https://www.cccs.co.uk/



    Below is a link you may found helpful about going BR?

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/1056083

    Also this link to the Insolvency Service is useful!

    http://www.insolvency.gov.uk/
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  • tigerfeet2006
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    As Dojo has said please contact one of the charities and talk to them and they will go through your options with you.

    Obviously we don't know your complete financial history so can't make a call on what you should do but given your debts it may be suggested that your DH goes BR and you go into a DRO as you only have £12k of debt. But obviously the debt charities will be able to advise properly.

    When you have an idea of what you are doing then come on here and we will help and support you through the process. Any questions mean while don't hesitate to ask.
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  • Ive spoken to all the charities already and all given different advice tbh, Thanks anyway :)
    Getting back on the Wagon after falling with a thump! :o
    Total Debt 31/11/13 = £20,341.05
    1 debt v's 100 days 14 £24/£300

    SPC #1108 Challenge 6 £63.76
  • tigerfeet2006
    tigerfeet2006 Posts: 14,030 Forumite
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    What advice have you been given?
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    The only stupid question is an unasked one
    Loving life as a Kernow Hippy
  • CCCS told us we couldnt go BR as didnt have enough money (which shocked me tbh) and National debtline said BR was our only option
    Getting back on the Wagon after falling with a thump! :o
    Total Debt 31/11/13 = £20,341.05
    1 debt v's 100 days 14 £24/£300

    SPC #1108 Challenge 6 £63.76
  • tigerfeet2006
    tigerfeet2006 Posts: 14,030 Forumite
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    How do you mean you don't have enough money? Does your essential outgoings exceed your incomings and if so by how much?
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    The only stupid question is an unasked one
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  • Nope, not essential outgoings, which is why I was very confused, and tried to clear this up with him but he just kept saying you can't go BR, just offer to pay £1 a month until you are in a better financial situation.
    My friend has just been round who was BR and shes been very kind and answered all sorts of questions as much and as best as she could :)
    Getting back on the Wagon after falling with a thump! :o
    Total Debt 31/11/13 = £20,341.05
    1 debt v's 100 days 14 £24/£300

    SPC #1108 Challenge 6 £63.76
  • IF
    IF Posts: 34,349 Forumite
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    Nope, not essential outgoings, which is why I was very confused, and tried to clear this up with him but he just kept saying you can't go BR, just offer to pay £1 a month until you are in a better financial situation.
    My friend has just been round who was BR and shes been very kind and answered all sorts of questions as much and as best as she could :)

    Hello TC, Well I'd go with National debtline and it's not the first time I have heard this about CCS. So between NDL, your friend and us we will help the best we can.

    Best wishes
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  • Hello TC, Well I'd go with National debtline and it's not the first time I have heard this about CCS. So between NDL, your friend and us we will help the best we can.

    Best wishes
    If...x

    Thank you so much! It all seems so confusing at the moment, we've made mistakes I guess to get in this situation, so I do not want to make any more :):)
    Getting back on the Wagon after falling with a thump! :o
    Total Debt 31/11/13 = £20,341.05
    1 debt v's 100 days 14 £24/£300

    SPC #1108 Challenge 6 £63.76
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