What's the point?

shayshay

Ok Toomuchdebt you had your LBM over a month ago, which is great, you have beent haked 60 times for whatever your comments were and i am sure they weren't negative ones, the basic side of it is you spent the money, on what I dont know and dont care but others here have far harder times regardless of the size of the debt and they haven't given up after one month, some have been on DMP for years and in much tighter situations and they go through it.

Sorry if this sounds harsh but I am a firm believer that sometimes to help some people you need to give them a kick up the backside and at this moment of time I believe you need that. You have done the hardest part by working out how much you have to pay and you have had your LBM now just grin and bear it, and move along with it.

Toomuchdebt

Thank you all-have just had a very bad day in all respects,because my OH doesn't know if he wants to be with me or not because of the problems we've had in the past-we haven't split up -he just wants some time and space so hard as it is I will have to do that.I am glad I am not getting more into debt and I know some people have much worse debt than me and don't give up and really I have no intention of giving up-it just seems like a long hard road right now,and looking at it practically I may be having to face this alone if my OH decides he doesn't want to be with me.I know I'm just having a tough few days at the moment and no doubt I'll have many more but I'm not going to give up.

yung

never had so much Debt in my whole working life, but I had one AIM when I was young and that was by the time I reach 55 I want to be debt free and retire and guess what I have achieved that AIM earlier than anticipated, I retired at 52 Debt Free and no stress. I am sure you can do it think positive and Aim High

duncans-mum_2

toomuchdebt, really big hugs to you. Although it is easier said than done try to take each day at a time on both of the problems you are currently facing. I really hope things get better for you soon hon.

x