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wedding present

rexel
rexel Posts: 602 Forumite
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what is the norm for gift of money for wedding present.

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  • mypie
    mypie Posts: 291 Forumite
    I assume you mean the amount. I would say £50 per person invited to the wedding ie. £100 per couple. My thinking behind this is that it would likely cover the cost of your meal. I can honestly say tho that most couples appreciate any thing. I am getting married soon and we have started getting gifts already and every single one is much appreciated.
    “A house is made of walls and beams;
    a home is built with love and dreams.”
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  • Artytarty
    Artytarty Posts: 2,642 Forumite
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    Hmmmm... I'm interested in this too!
    My friend is getting married soon and *sighs* "wants the money".
    Trouble is there are five of is in our household goig. Myself , OH and 3 grown up children.
    I was thiking £200 from the family would be fine?
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  • dmxdave
    dmxdave Posts: 1,609 Forumite
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    This old thread might help
    Dave
  • mypie
    mypie Posts: 291 Forumite
    Artytarty wrote: »
    Hmmmm... I'm interested in this too!
    My friend is getting married soon and *sighs* "wants the money".
    Trouble is there are five of is in our household goig. Myself , OH and 3 grown up children.
    I was thiking £200 from the family would be fine?
    Goodness that is very generous. Luck bride and groom:D
    “A house is made of walls and beams;
    a home is built with love and dreams.”
    2012 Challenge to buy most gifts and non essentials from money made online.:money:
  • miss_maid
    miss_maid Posts: 82 Forumite
    I agree with mypie, we always give £100 per couple. If it was a really close friend/immediate family it would be more though.
  • Artytarty
    Artytarty Posts: 2,642 Forumite
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    It works out at less than £50 a head , I'm sure it's costing much more than that for us to be catered for. I admit that it feels rather like buying a ticket each! I would rather give a gift but thats not what she wants.
    She's a good friend though , we go way back to early school days.
    Norn Iron Club member 473
  • mypie
    mypie Posts: 291 Forumite
    Artytarty wrote: »
    It works out at less than £50 a head , I'm sure it's costing much more than that for us to be catered for. I admit that it feels rather like buying a ticket each! I would rather give a gift but thats not what she wants.
    She's a good friend though , we go way back to early school days.
    how about buying a present and putting a little money in the card. Another option is vouchers for their fav restaurant instead of money.
    “A house is made of walls and beams;
    a home is built with love and dreams.”
    2012 Challenge to buy most gifts and non essentials from money made online.:money:
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