concentrating on the wedding!!

lolly1981

dont you just hate that phrase (along with you cant eat that you have a dress to get into)

ive been hearing it alot lately..i get married on the 7th august and everything is planned, we arent sorting the reception my aunts are, my dress gets started next week, i need to get my underwear and shoes for the men..plus prezzies for bestman and my aunties but thats it...nothing to think about really.
A cousin and i are going to trek the great wall of china for charity next year so are planning all sorts of fundraisers and at the minute that is all i think about lol but it helps me to not stress or worry about the wedding as i dont think about it all the time IYSWIM

but when i tell people my plans all i here is YOU SHOULD BE CONCENTRATING ON THE WEDDING grrrrrr

anyone else got any little comments that bug you? xx

Dizzie77

Big Hug - no help re comments really, maybe just say "but it's all organised..."

But well done you on the trek - I did that a few years ago, and it is a real life changing experience.
If you want any fundraising tips, let me know..!!

lolly1981

thank you no doubt i'll take you up on that...what comapny did you go with and did you self fund or have a minimum sponsership and the charity pay? sorry i am nosey lol

i tried the im all organised bit but they try to pic holes in it lol they forget iots a simple ceremony with a bbq in my aunties backgarden..there is about 100 ppl so not small but definatly simple

Dizzie77

Lolly - I've sent you a PM about the trek so that we don't go OT....!!

Maybe you should pretend to have some sort of crisis about the wedding, and then everyone will say
"it's ok, you're all in control"....!!!!

bubbles0169

its not about your topic but comments that have bugged me so far are....
mil2b saying 'oh your not wearing brown shoes are you? i dont like brown' after h2b jokingly saying his very nice brown shoes he was wearing were his wedding shoes
erm why cant he wear what he wants???
then my own mother saying after seeing a brochure of the venue 'oh i dont like the chairs and the carpet? it doesnt go does it? i really dont like the chairs'
i mean WTH????!!!!

lolly1981

lmao...i just think its so funny whn people get on their high horse about a wedding they have no say in lol.
i had OH's dad say that he wasnt happy about bringing alchol with him!! well we are providing SOME drink but not a lot...OH's family drink like fishes and act like idiots, and anyway if we had it in a venue such a s a hotel..he'd be paying for his drinks and it would cost a hell of a lot more!!

OH mother...have you invited so and so and auntie this and uncle that.....no...well you should they are family!!!
grrrr i didnt even know these people exsisted till that very second!!! i dont want people i dont know on our wedding day!!

sorry woke up in a bad mood can you tell?

bubbles0169

no dont apologise its good to get it out lol