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Can I do it this time?

Well I'm back on the MSE forums because I need help. I have to admit that I am a shopaholic. I thought that was just a made up word but I now believe it's a disease. I managed to clear most of my debts but have started shopping again and can't seem to stop.

I keep my bills down to a minimum and get all the best deals but working in a city centre and having my cards on me and 'believing' I deserve new things because I've worked hard has meant me running up a massive debt on my credit card again.

So in my first step to getting this under control I have left my cards and cash (apart from £2) in the house to ensure no temptation. Although knowing my passwords for preregistered cards on places such as Amazon is not good.

Right here are the debts, I need to type them for all to see so I am open and honest about my situation:

Halifax Credit Card £4,638(24.5%apr)
Abbey Credit Card £7,200 (0% apr - transferred this from Halifax, it was the maximum limit they would give me)
Halifax overdraft - £1, 473 (17% apr)

Total: 13,311

OMG that is so awful seeing those figures in black and white :( The sad thing is I have a decent job and am bringing in a reasonable salary which would allow me to treat myself but I have got out of control and instead of using the extra cash to throw at the debts I continued spending so the debts haven't reduced at all.

As mentioned above I am happy with my current everyday bills so I'll just list my income and outgoings and maybe you can suggest how to deal with the overdraft and credit cards:

Wages Job 1: £1300 per month
Wages Job 2: £800 per month
Child Benefit: £138 per month

Total income: £2238

House outgoings including loan repayments: £1400

Disposable income (if I stopped spending it on clothes etc.) £838

I was thinking of paying the minimum on the 0% card and throwing as much as possible at the other two. I know the Halifax credit card has the highest APR BUT my overdraft is just too tempting to keep dipping in to so I was going to try and pay that off first and cut up the card - in fact I was going to cut up the card once I get home to ensure I never dip in to it again.

I feel so down at the moment, there are people struggling on here that don't have my disposable income and would probably do a hell of a lot better than I'm doing. I just can't believe I'm in this mess again. Just shows what can happen if you don't stay on these forums and get support.

Thank you so much for listening.

Comments

  • DVardysShadow
    DVardysShadow Posts: 18,949 Forumite
    Suggest you do the Statement of Affairs to establish how much money you have to throw at debt. Then you use that info to do a snowball calculation to work out a debt free date and you put focus on the debt free date - monitoring your progress and trying to make it earlier.

    Might help you to focus to have a debt free date as a target - and if you keep monitoring, you can see if spends start putting your debt free day back.
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  • capoff
    capoff Posts: 2 Newbie
    Where is the snowball calculator located?

    Ta
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