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Wedding guest - help required!

I don't usually wear dresses. Well, I have for the last 2 weddings I've been to, but usually, it's not for me, so I wanted some advice from (probably) seasoned wedding guests. Sorry that this isn't entirely in the right place, but I will be contributing more to this board as a whole as the year progresses ;)

Now, I've always known white isn't REALLY ok to wear for weddings... possibly it is if you ask the bride first, and if it's patterned enough.

Black - again, pure black isnt really good. But how about this in either white or black? (I'm thinking black). It's a day wedding (late afternoon though) followed by an evening party.

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=270590409242&var=570005319048&ssPageName=STRK:MEWAX:IT

Reckon it's acceptable? thinking black bag, shrug and maryjane shoes in MSE style (I've already got 'em!)

I've spent £80 on a fab 50's purple dress recently so quite keen to keep the cost down while not repeating myself too much (facebook is a pain for this!!!)
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  • joho
    joho Posts: 4,769 Forumite
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    I think the dress is lovely! Really fresh and pretty. It would be just fine for a wedding, but rather than black acessories why not silver or gold or even a colour like red to brighten it up? Unless, of course, you already have the accessories in which case go for it!!
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  • schizometric
    schizometric Posts: 716 Forumite
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    Thanks joho! Do you reckon white or black or either?! :P
    2008-2011: £23k of wins :eek:
    2011 best win: my wedding ring :o
    2012 best win so far: iPad 2!!!! Holiday to Austria (given to family member) :j also £100 & 2 wine cases
    Thank you so much, all posters :beer:
  • I'd probably chose the black and, as joho says, accessorise it with silver.
    Lovely dress :-)
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  • joho
    joho Posts: 4,769 Forumite
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    Sorry, the white one came up and I didn't register the black one! Doh. It's bedtime!! I prefer the white for a summer(y) wedding. But they're both lovely!
    If you have nothing constructive to say just move along.
  • Dizzie77
    Dizzie77 Posts: 2,206 Forumite
    I vote for the white one too....!!
    In fact, a friend of mine wore something very similar to a wedding recently.
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  • Stephb1986_2
    Stephb1986_2 Posts: 6,279 Forumite
    edited 8 June 2010 at 10:53PM
    The white one is a nice dress Im not a dress sort of girl either I can't remember the last time I wore a dress!!!

    Steph xx
  • Apricot
    Apricot Posts: 2,497 Forumite
    I like the white one - so much Im going to buy it myself for a wedding I've got coming up!
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  • much prefer the white one for a summer wedding
  • bigmomma051204
    bigmomma051204 Posts: 1,776 Forumite
    The white one... and i agree that you should add a splash of colour somewhere... red cardi or purple or something? Maybe just a pashmina or something? That dress would look ace with a red cardi and red shoes!!!! or even just no cardi, red shoes and red bag :D i love black, white and red lol... but any other bright-ish colour would look cool!
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  • ellay864
    ellay864 Posts: 3,827 Forumite
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    My vote goes white and I'm with bigmomma in going for red or a bright pink to accessorise shoes, bag etc. New Look often have some really nice bright shoes on cheap and you can pick up a small clutch bag or something for just a few quid easy enough. :)
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